Is it noticeable to others?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by cps, Dec 28, 2013.

  1. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    An interesting thing happened to me over the holidays. While we were visiting with family, two of my female relatives commented that I seem different - in a good way. They observed that I seem more content, more patient, more alive. And they also observed that hubby and I seem closer and more in love than ever before. In their words, we seem hotter for each other.

    This was all surprising to me, their comments. I attribute it to our newfound fun with my black lover, but I had no idea my demeanor was different. Have any of you had a similar experience around friends or family? They don't know of your lifestyle, but notice the effect?
     
  2. MissKassie

    MissKassie Member

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    A lot of people say I have been happier lately and often ask if I've gotten a haircut or something. However, my boyfriend doesn't know why I'm looking so good :)
     
  3. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thanks for sharing. I guess it just never occurred to me that a change in my personality would happen, or be noticed by others.
     
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  4. MissKassie

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    That is a good thing though. Better than them commenting that you are miserable :D
     
  5. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Yes, it is a good thing. I was never miserable, but it must have really changed my countenance and expressions.
     
  6. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Thank you. Why do you love us?
     
  7. MissKassie

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    And started using fancy words like countenance :)
     
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  8. Mandy and Brian

    Mandy and Brian Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    im always in a better mood after some BBC loving and friends and family have commented on it.
     
  9. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Maybe that is what it is. It was just a surprise to me that they noticed.
     
  10. MissKassie

    MissKassie Member

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    I always feel more beautiful after some BBC
     
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  11. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I agree with you. I feel so sexy, alive, and desirable since I started with my black lover.
     
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  12. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    There may be some truth to that in general. I know at times, I enjoy being submissive. But with my lover, it is more equal. I am just as aggressive at times, and love expressing and experiencing this new aspect of my sexuality. This whole experience is really liberating for me.
     
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  13. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    My friends have said im a lot more confident and outgoing than i used to be. But im not sure if BBC have made me this way or if i have started seeing BBC because i have become more confident. Not sure which came first. Its got to do you good though when a younger, fit guy wants to be with you!
     
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  14. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Hmmm, that's a real generalization. Not all white women are submissive. But I'm sure you do realize that.
     
  15. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    That is an interesting perspective Ann. You're right - which came first? I guess it doesn't really matter, lol. I do feel more confident too, better overall about myself. It has done wonders for my self esteem, having a younger black lover.
     
  16. Thats how it goes when you take a black lover.
    Hubby gets more interested in you and therefore you also get more interested in him . Its a great shot in the arm for any white marriage .
    Its like we discover sex all over again whenever hubby shares me with a black man and i love it.
    Karen x.
     
  17. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I think that is the biggest and best surprise we have experienced from this - the increase in our desire for each other. My black lover has just taken me to a whole new level of my sexuality, and my desire for sex is at an all time high. And my hubby sees me in a whole new light too. I mean, we have sex so much more now. I just had no idea others would notice this change ( without knowing the reason why, lol).
     
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  18. MissKassie

    MissKassie Member

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    It also helps with your self-image. You want to look sexy.
     
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  19. cps

    cps Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Yes, it does. I find myself dressing slightly different, I like getting attention. And that is because I feel sexier now, desirable.
     
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  20. MissKassie

    MissKassie Member

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    I know. You feel like a new woman!
     
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