Is it noticeable to others?

cps

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An interesting thing happened to me over the holidays. While we were visiting with family, two of my female relatives commented that I seem different - in a good way. They observed that I seem more content, more patient, more alive. And they also observed that hubby and I seem closer and more in love than ever before. In their words, we seem hotter for each other.

This was all surprising to me, their comments. I attribute it to our newfound fun with my black lover, but I had no idea my demeanor was different. Have any of you had a similar experience around friends or family? They don't know of your lifestyle, but notice the effect?
 

cps

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I love white women cuz im aggressive and dominant and white women are submissive and know how to handle our aggressive take charge nature :)
There may be some truth to that in general. I know at times, I enjoy being submissive. But with my lover, it is more equal. I am just as aggressive at times, and love expressing and experiencing this new aspect of my sexuality. This whole experience is really liberating for me.
 

Ann4BBC

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My friends have said im a lot more confident and outgoing than i used to be. But im not sure if BBC have made me this way or if i have started seeing BBC because i have become more confident. Not sure which came first. Its got to do you good though when a younger, fit guy wants to be with you!
 

cps

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My friends have said im a lot more confident and outgoing than i used to be. But im not sure if BBC have made me this way or if i have started seeing BBC because i have become more confident. Not sure which came first. Its got to do you good though when a younger, fit guy wants to be with you!
That is an interesting perspective Ann. You're right - which came first? I guess it doesn't really matter, lol. I do feel more confident too, better overall about myself. It has done wonders for my self esteem, having a younger black lover.
 
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An interesting thing happened to me over the holidays. While we were visiting with family, two of my female relatives commented that I seem different - in a good way. They observed that I seem more content, more patient, more alive. And they also observed that hubby and I seem closer and more in love than ever before. In their words, we seem hotter for each other.

This was all surprising to me, their comments. I attribute it to our newfound fun with my black lover, but I had no idea my demeanor was different. Have any of you had a similar experience around friends or family? They don't know of your lifestyle, but notice the effect?
Thats how it goes when you take a black lover.
Hubby gets more interested in you and therefore you also get more interested in him . Its a great shot in the arm for any white marriage .
Its like we discover sex all over again whenever hubby shares me with a black man and i love it.
Karen x.
 

cps

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TN, US
#17
Thats how it goes when you take a black lover.
Hubby gets more interested in you and therefore you also get more interested in him . Its a great shot in the arm for any white marriage .
Its like we discover sex all over again whenever hubby shares me with a black man and i love it.
Karen x.
I think that is the biggest and best surprise we have experienced from this - the increase in our desire for each other. My black lover has just taken me to a whole new level of my sexuality, and my desire for sex is at an all time high. And my hubby sees me in a whole new light too. I mean, we have sex so much more now. I just had no idea others would notice this change ( without knowing the reason why, lol).
 
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That is an interesting perspective Ann. You're right - which came first? I guess it doesn't really matter, lol. I do feel more confident too, better overall about myself. It has done wonders for my self esteem, having a younger black lover.
It also helps with your self-image. You want to look sexy.