It's something most hubbies are trying to address their mind to. I know this because a lot of hubbies too have in the past written to me about wanting me to come and become their Black Master. Usually I turn them down not 'cos I think of them as being gay, but rather I don't want to be a tool as to the destruction of their marriage. Cuckoldry involves three people: the hubby, the wife, and the lover. It's never two, or else it would be considered cheating.