Honestly, Cherish, I can relate. I'm actually thinking of giving up on this site, after being here about a year and a half. I'm sick of all the rough, extreme stuff, the superiority/inferiority garbage, the fakes etc.
I've made a few friends, but those of us who keep our feet planted firmly in reality, well, we seem to be the minority. We're always getting pushed to the side by all the others who want to live in their fantasy world where bareback is always safe, fathers are supposed to introduce their daughters to sex by finding them a big, black bull, a woman always dreams of being dominated and raped, and so on.
Sometimes, I really wonder why I bother.
I hope you manage to find the diamonds on here, and that you do so without having to dig through the tons of pics of coal.
Cheers, Mari