This is a good place to come seeking HONEST & SINCERE answers ...
Be glad you haven't been douced in gasoline and holding a match ... cause there would be some in the crowd yelling for you to light the match.
The 2 of you are bored with "routine sex" ... happens all the time with longer wedded married couples. This is where creativity comes into play. Obviously you're here because of your curiosity to black men, right? Whatever you do, do it because you want too ... not because you feel pressured to do it. If your marriage is good, except for the sex, try some creative new approaches. Having an occasional 3-some could put some "charge" back in his sex drive.
My observation from that pic you posted of your hubby, however, is that he's a good 50-60 pounds overweight. You need to put him on a restricted diet ... and start going on brisk walks with him. His energy & testosterone levels are probably "shot". How old is he? Possibly have him get some ******* work done to see where his chemical levels are ... I know 2,000 mg of B12 (twice a day) will elevate his energy level tremendously. Plus, we don't know what you look like, and not asking you to reveal, but you can stand naked in front of a mirror and do your own assessment ... if you're a bit plump after years of marriage, its time to give your hubby a New You ... trim down to a sexy size 4-6, new hair style, etc. He can probably be revitalized, but it takes EFFORT & DESIRE! Good luck! Mac
My husband has been encouraging me to find another man for a few years now. Until recently I never even considered it because of fear of someone finding out. That and I never thought he was all that bad in bed. Now we have the chance to go somewhere no one will know us or ever see us again. Now I am thinking about it more, but also dont mind what I have.
