May I just point out that watching IR porn doesn't make any man a cuckold......
getting off wanking about your wife(??) being fucked by another man.... a looooong time before you ever mention it to her.... is actually more about sexing up the Madonna/Whore paradigm.
And it's the husband who is in control .
I suggest forgetting the Dom Sub Cuck Ho roleplay and just enjoy the show...... or join in! Because it turns you on. Simple, ******* lust - No psychobabble, no labels needed. Just go with the Lust..... and pile into the fun.....
You don't know men.