How involved are you all into this lifestyle???
We're VIP members of our local mandingo party club, although we only attend parties two or three times a year at most, we're quite well known from being in the local swinging scene for 15 years. So I'd say ... deeply?
Does it consume every sexual experience???
Not 'every' experience but a vast majority of our private marital sex involves some sort of cuckoldry and/or kinky pillow talk. So, majority, vast majority?
Was it him or her who started it??? Whose idea first???
Uh... yes? It started when we were in our early 20's, she's already come out as bi, we'd already dabbled in swinging but were very inexperienced, we'd been together about 4 years or so. We stopped at a little porn shop in the midwest just to browse on the 12 hour road-trip. She wanted to read dirty stories as we trekked across the country so she got one of those $5.99 3-book, horribly written short story collections. One of the books was 'Luscious Naughty Wives' and the whole theme was about either openly cheating wives or outright cuckoldry. That night she read that story as we were playing in the hotel. As I fingered her I noticed that my usually moist girlfriend was now a Niagara Falls of dampness. The story she was reading was about a woman who went out with her girlfriends and got left behind at the bar. Long story short, wife discovers she's a slutwife in a dozen guy bar-bang. So I figured out from her physical reaction to reading the story was that her deepest fantasy was a gang-bang. Something that at 23 she wasn't even remotely close to being willing to admit. So over the years of occasional play-dates with other couples, a few orgies at the swingers clubs and a few separate play-times, every once in a while I'd bring out that old book and read 'her story' to her. After she went off birth control for us to have our ******* we figured out the root cause of her generally tepid attiude about sex. A change in her hormonal birth control and the woman wanted far more cock than I had the energy to provide. So dirty stories slowly rolled into some resemblance of reality. She's been trying to work her cycle around attending a gang-bang party for 4 months now and just keeps missing the dates. I'm thinking for our 12 year wedding anniversary she's going to be tied to a hotel bed, blindfolded and fucked by hopefully a full dozen of the local mandingo club.... thereby completing her fantasy.
As far as who 'started it'... Well her body told me what she wanted even if her mouth wouldn't admit a willingness to try for 15 years. As far as who made it happen, well I was the one writing impromptu pillow talk porn stories based on how her body reacted for 15 years. Enough repetition it went from a scary fantasy to an enticing reality. It's tricky but I won't take all the blame, she found the chastity cages on her own .... and again I enticed her by probing her mind and body searching for reactions. So she's the muse/actress and I'm the writer, producer, director? We're a team in this crazy misadventure.
Any regrets??? Desires still???
Regrets,.... that it took 15 years of fighting mild depression and lack of desire due to hormonal birth control to pry the slut out of her that I met when we were 19, I'm convinced if her hormones were balanced she would have been fucking the entire football team before we were out of college.
Desires... there's an end? I'm still waiting for the month in chastity release to her and a dominatrix friend post gangbang creampie cleanup job followed by pegging, followed by agonizing releasal to a penis pump and multiple edging before finally released to a gushing ruined orgasm. Oh yeah and gotta get her that 12-guy gangbang, then my job as deliverer of fantasies is complete and she's gotta find something new for me to make happen.
Maybe the week in the Caribbean of her getting fucked every night while I watch in chastity... That's not happened yet.
Just curious where everyone is at and where you want to be
Well she got fucked by two well hung black men yesterday and I cleaned her up, fucked her for a while and then got a handjob with post orgasm *******. It was nice, it's been about 5 months since we played and we were due for some debauchery. *Getting old, having kid, bad back... this ******* would have been so much easier in our 20's.