Introduction via dildo

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by ArdentOneX, Jul 22, 2015.

  1. ArdentOneX

    ArdentOneX New Member

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    My wife is pretty conservative/vanilla. I had just recently introduced a lifelike dildo to my wife. Curiously, she had always been hesitant to large size increases before because she doesn't like pressure on her cervix. I had tried an extender in the past and she didn't like it, but this time I think it was accepted, albeit reluctantly, better than she let on. This new dildo is made by Pipedream. Real feel no 13. 8.5" long, 2" diam, 6.25" girth. Much longer and thicker than me. It's mocha colored to be less shocking than BBC. Have to take it slow right ...

    I've used it 3 times on her in the last 10 days. The first, I could tell by her body language, she enjoyed ... moaning and squirming to an orgasm before I got to have a turn. 2nd time, I came quickly in her somewhat on purpose then got the toy to finish her off properly. I was able to get a second fuck in after the toy had done it's work. The last time, I simply gave her a toe curling orgasm to wake her up before I had to leave to work. I purposefully didn't allow myself to get any afterwards ... I wanted her to just relish in the after glow. The funny thing is that on the third time, when she saw that I had got the dildo out after I had gone down on her, she said, "Can't I just have a normal orgasm?". I proceeded to lube it up and rub her slit and she relaxed a bit to enjoy it as I erased it in. She had a fantastic orgasm. Every time, she has me lick her while the toy is stroking (and vibrating). I pick up my head to watch and tease and she'll grab the back of my head to pull me back down to finish her off. I later got a text that morning, "I had an amazing dream at 7 this morning. Wow!"

    One thing I've noticed lately is how much more easily the dildo slides into her now. She doesn't complain nearly as much that it's too big or too deep. It slides right in and she seems satisfied right away.

    I'm not sure where I want this to go next. I'm considering getting myself a chastity belt from mature metals (jailbird) so I can focus on pleasing her. While she seems to at least accept this new pleasure from time to time, I'm pretty certain she would adamantly reject adding another man at this point. But, I may try to at least introduce some porn for additional stimulation while I'm pleasuring her and see what ideas may flow from there. Maybe something where the girl is getting fucked from behind while the cuck is under her licking.

    Thoughts?
     
  2. biwhitecple

    biwhitecple Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Don't go talking about adding another man yet. You are in the beginning stages and will probably freak her out. There were great cuckolding guides I've read on here before. If I find that I'll repost it but I would most likely move to porn next. obviously BBC porn :) nothING too crazy to begin with though. Instead of interracial porn maybe just start with black on black porn so she gets amazed by the BBC then move onto black guys and white girls. Good luck! !!!!!
     
  3. Drillher4me

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    Sounds much like my wife, Pam. We did start out a little differently however. Without getting into specifics and rewriting what I've already posted elsewhere on this site, we started out with my sharing my fantasy of seeing a white pussy get nailed by a BBC. The first time I bought it up was about a year after we were married and had near disastrous results. I had to sleep in the spare bedroom for the next three nights, plus the air in our house was Artic cold for at least a week. Did I mention in addition to being called a "sex pervert!" Lol

    Anyway, not to be deterred, the next time I mentioned it I made sure the moment was right and if she rejected it, at least the spare bedroom would not be my destination. So we went on from there, eventually she played along and I would even ask, "Would you like to try a BBC right now?", and many variations of that. It was after this that I bought her a black dildo! Initially, like your wife, she protested but she scummed to curiosity, eventually even asking for it! Lol.

    Three years ago this past March, Pam and an old university friend and roommate of mine, Edwin, made out. Edwin is black and enormously well endowed! We have also posted about that experience elsewhere on this site. We had been married almost nine (9) years before this happened.

    I'd suggest that a good place to start is when she's toying with her dildo by asking if she'd like it to be the real thing! Better be ready for the rebuff but ease her potential concerns by suggesting you're just being curious, or perhaps, just wondering what it would be like to see a real black one there instead of her dildo! Remember though, easy as it goes and one step at a time!

    Keep us informed!
     
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  4. kevtat

    kevtat Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    somewhat similar experience. Am using a chastity device and she LOVES her dildos. We avoid too much use of a vibrator because they can be addicting and develop a response that cannot be duplicated absent electronics. If you wish to share please reach out at: kevp33446 on yahoo email or messenger
     
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  5. ArdentOneX

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    I think part of the her reluctance is that she says that I'm enough for her. I'm not big, probably just slightly below avg, but she does have an orgasm every time we play either through intercourse or oral. Love oral BTW and relish bringing her to orgasm.

    We've been married 15 years come August. It's all a faded memory now, but I do recall some discussions about whether I'd be jealous if another man wanted her. She asked me a loaded question, and she made it clear that it's NOT ok if I were ok with it. Lol. She's pretty traditional in that sense. She wants me to be jealous, possessive, and not ok with sharing. So I have to be careful how I answer knowing her predisposition.

    So understanding that, I figure this all needs to be about pleasure. HER pleasure. Show devotion. Show her how good a large member could be. Not sure if/when I would want to even broach the subject of adding a third again, but I think we're going in the right direction.

    I'm trying to find some porn with good visuals of the wives enjoying a larger cock. Not crude, trashy or hypnos at this point as that would be too obvious. (I like those, but i just want her to see the sensuousness of it). Maybe evolving some to the cuck licking her clit from underneath while taking it from behind since she likes me to lick her while the dildo is in.

    As I mentioned before, she generally doesn't like being penetrated too deep I.e. cervix. Even when I penetrate too far with my penis at the wrong angle, it can kill her buildup. Getting a toy with some girth and still pliable, I was very pleased at her reaction. It's still going deep, but it's obviously pleasurable. Still trying to figure out / get her to articulate the change over past experiences.

    She still hasn't asked for it specifically. In all cases, I snuck it in thus far. Someone mentioned that is you do something 3 out 4 times, it can become habit forming. We shall see.
     
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  6. Drillher4me

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    I could have had written your opening remarks exactly as you've written because that's precisely what Pam used to say to me, "you're enough for me", and/or, "you're all I want!!" Until that is she finally came around and "literally" tasted Edwin's cock, (she gave him an awesome blow job and swallowed every droplet of his hot cum!) before she spread her legs and allowed him to fuck her! Did I mention that swallowing cum was something she had never done for me up until that point. This is indicative of just how horny she truly was! Lol
     
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  7. kevtat

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  8. TorontoBased

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    My ex was completely devoted to me and wasn't up for a 3some with another man so we got a toy and it was really fun but she always preferred my cock lol
     
  9. WillandSusn

    WillandSusn Well-Known Member

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    Reminds me of a vacation in the Caribbean one year . She was looking at all the hot black studs but only from a distance . Then she got friendly with one. Soon she was sucking his cock and then so much more . Got to be a very hot vacation . Need to go back there . Ha Ha
     
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  10. Drillher4me

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    Not much that I know of that can match watching a well hung black guy get worked over by your horny white wife/girlfriend! Lol
    P.S. Pay particular notice to " .... black guy get worked over ...." Lol
     
  11. WillandSusn

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    Ha ha. Oh yeah. Its like "start your engines" in racing. After the first guy things really got hot with the other studs that wanted in on the activities. And she was so eagar and willing too. She loves the island now. Ha ha
     
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  12. WillandSusn

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    You didn't think all those Viagra and Cialis TV adds were really for us mature husbands did you ?
    BTW the new adds are really hot ... Sexy women who come out and say they want hard cock