In need of advice.

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by KeriTheSlut, Dec 31, 2014.

  1. KeriTheSlut

    KeriTheSlut Active Member

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    I have been seeing a guy for about two weeks. He is amazing, but seems to be looking for the traditional relationship.
    I'm not looking for that, I want him to treat me like a lady when we go out, but when we go back to his place I want to be dominated. I want him to use me and make me his cock whore. I think it be really hot if he shared me with his friends and treat me like I owe him this.
    How do I bring this up to him?
     
  2. nothinguc

    nothinguc Active Member Gold Member

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    If you don't know why do you call yourself "theslut"?
     
  3. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Two weeks, huh? You can't possibly know this guy in just 2 weeks.

    You can tell him you've just gone through a divorce and you really want to just "stay casual" for a while. You don't say that he's a black guy, but I assume he is, so you tell him that you're wanting to experience relationships (plural) with a few black men. Then jokingly say, "fulfill some sexual fantasies; maybe even a 3-some or something". "We're only young once, you know."
    Regardless, if you're wanting to casual date, and he's wanting to monogamy date, you should let him know up front.
    Who knows, you may be surprised! Mac
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  4. KeriTheSlut

    KeriTheSlut Active Member

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    Sorry I wasn't specific, but yes he is black. I've know him for close to a year but only recently have we gotten together.
     
  5. rayforblacks

    rayforblacks Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    tell him right up..life is a blink girl..if he's in he's in......you have to live your life with no regrets..ray
     
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  6. MILFSEEKERpgh

    MILFSEEKERpgh Active Member

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    U got to set it up like that. ..
    Tell the truth. ..
     
  7. CuckCpl4BBC

    CuckCpl4BBC Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Got to be clear....you want a sexual relationship. He may not. Make sure you're on the same page.
     
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  8. rayforblacks

    rayforblacks Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    and after 2 weeks ,,goodbye if he's not in,,,sorry for being so direct
     
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  9. KeriTheSlut

    KeriTheSlut Active Member

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    I told him exactly what I wanted and he told me he was totally cool. He and I watched some videos he had that were what I wanted. This is going to be amazing.
     
  10. King of the Swirl

    King of the Swirl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Not every man has a dominant nature,
    it sounds like you may be looking for him to be someone he is not.
    Some men just don't have it in them to dominate a woman.
     
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