Can anyone give me some advice on how to assure hubbie that I am well aware of my self & that I understand how to separate SEX with a BIG BLACK COCK is just that sex ...NO EMOTIONS ...I think he has worries about that I can't separate the two ... I just after 20 years & never another... had sex with a BBC that he set up ...any input would be helpful ... I give him ALL the sex he wants too & we have a great marriage but I know this is on his mind !!??