Hello to group. I am a married guy (late 30's) who is obsessed with the idea of watching another man in bed with my wife. We experimented with it for about three years but suddenly she was no longer willing which surprised me as she obviously enjoyed the few times we did it. Anyway I can't force her but am left with the desire. She will do some things but draws the line at actually having sex with other men. Is anyone else in this situation?