Thank you! We are perfectly suited for each other. It's remarkable how seemingly small events can sometimes change everything going forward. I was in a total state of rebellion when we met. I had known from the onset of adolescence that I loved sex,but I'd had one failed relationship after another in my teens because of men's jealous and possessive attitudes. I was convinced that all men were like that and that their cocks were the only thing any of them had that I wanted. If we hadn't met when we did,I don't know what might have happened from that point on for me. I suppose I would've gotten over my rebellious phase and accepted that it was me who wasn't "normal". My guess is that I would've ended up accepting an existence with some man with a fucked up attitude who I could tolerate because he had a big dick. That's a depressing thought,but it happens.
I was just blowing off steam when I told my hubby how I really felt about men and the whole thing. I thought he would be gone in a flash when I dumped my anger on him. I really liked him from the beginning,but not enough to play the silly game that I knew men expected me to play. I told him the honest truth about how I felt,because I was too pissed to care if I blew him off. He completely knocked me off balance when he agreed with everything I said and told me that he loved my attitude. What? Nobody had ever said that before! The rest,as they say,is history. It's our history,and I know I never would've pushed the limits as I have if I didn't have him encouraging me to go for it. He has always told me to get what I want,that I can and that I should. His encouragement has always been there for me,even when he couldn't be there himself. He's been steadfast in his support for me to this day.