From just reading this thread, its obvious many people don't know or understand what cuckolding is, or why it works for some couples.
Real cuckolding occurs when a married woman has sex with men OTHER THAN her husband .... period, end of definition! It doesn't matter if the husband knows, doesn't know, cares, encourages it, or if the lovers she takes are white, black, green, or martians. The fact that she's married and fucks other men makes HIM a cuckold.
A black man can be a cuckold just as well as a white man. Only difference, usually when a married, black man finds out his black woman has been cheating on HIM ... he kills the bastard that's fucking his wife, beats his wife within an inch of her life, and then goes to jail. The threat of jail isn't as near a discouragement for him as it is for the white males. White males will sometimes cause a brief amount of a problem, but eventually either accept the cuckolding or divorce the wife. They're less likely to "fight" (compete with the adversary) for their woman.
A married man who encourages his wife to fuck other men could also be referred to as a
wittol ... look it up! With voluntary cuckolding, married men desire this for one or more of these reasons:
- he's voyeuristic, and gets sexually stimulated by watching his wife being used by another man, or
- he's become too lazy or unwilling to make the effort to sexually satisfy his wife, or
- he's become sexually disinterested in her, or
- he's become medically inpotent, OR
- he's sexually attracted to powerful, alpha-type men (bisexual) and uses his wife to be attract these men to him.
By the way, black cuckolding is NOT about the black male, its still about the female and HER pleasure. If the black male isn't pleasing her for whatever reason, she'll discard him like a used tampon and move to another that can please her. In cuckold situations, men really CONTROL NOTHING unless the female allows it, so don't kid yourself that you are IN CONTROL simply because you have a BBC.
