I don't understand how a white man could tolerate being a cuckold

In my case, I never ever thought in a million years would I have sex with a man, let alone a black man or a man with my wife period! Our relationship started with me into foot fetish, female smoking fetish and watching a female pee. We started that way and you know, from almost the beginning, she told me that she would eventually whine me off her vagina and having sex althigher with her. Then she goes on to say, she would become a FemDom and even have me engaged in sex with males and I would leanr to love humiliation and degaradation. I thought and believed she was joking and taking things out of context. But a year later in the relationship we are married and she began and methodically did everything she said.

I found it all intriguing and sexually explosive. I am now basically gay, still married to her and always will be. She humiliates me and degrades me in explicit detail with nothing held back. She is hugely into the older white male/younger Asian female stuff and employs the financial cuck and slave traits 100% on me. When she is standing there, stripped and ready for sex with a superior black man, smoking a cigarette and watching me bowing like a real slave, praising the man, and then kissing, fondling and licking his balls and ass to prep him, I am harder and more erect than I used to before all of this ever happened. When she has me kneeling and waiting with my mouth open to accept the black man's seed load, I have to remind myself to stay calm and try to keep my erection under control as she taught me respect, but I actually want to jump up and down and yell for joy and happiness.

So, am I supposed to feel guilt or be searching for something I lost as the OP suggests??? I have no idea, but I am 1,000,000% in sexual bliss with what this mean, wicked, bitch-cunt, hard-core, twisted Asian female conceived-carried out and inflicted unto me.

Do I feel embrassed, sure! Do I feel scared at times, sure! But straight sex and straight women, suck! They are boring and not for me. So, when I strip, verbally admit and degrade myself to a superor black man, and then bend and bow and beg him to allow me to smell, kiss, lick and accept him, I am okay with it!!! In my case, I have learned what reality is and should always be. That is, to accept my inferior, submissive and gay side as my total personality, be used by my fantastic FemDom wife and be happy my balls shoot off the largest and most powerful orgasms I ever could desire.
 
Last edited:
It is a difficult decision, but I do think as more husbands become aware of how desirable this lifestyle is, especially for others, they'll learn to put down their petty pride and embrace it wholeheartedly.


100% SPOT ON!!!! I am a cuck husband, a former straight only love women and in fact, kind of down on blacks type of white business male! I am sorry but I was. I am not a full gay cuck, proud of it and love it! I respect and adore the black man. SO I have more money and education, most black men, not all, are endowed larger than me, and almost all can sexually last longer than me, and so many are built physically better than me also. Those are some of the reasons. The rest is the younger wife who is into being a FemDom as well, wants the superior black male and wanted me to be gay and have male to male sex and give hand, head and anal to man. I am not allowed anything but my own hand and occasionally that of my wife to satisfy me.

The black man, all of them, deserve my devotion, financial assistance and to have their way sexually with my wife. I am proud to 'bend and bow' to a black man my wife is with because he is special and he will please her. You say bull *******? Well even if he doesn't give her an orgasm she will have me accept his load directly or off of her or something along those lines. Then she will get off and watch me, the subject matter of her twisted and taboo experiments of flipping a straight man to being gay and even idolizing blacks, etc., she will have her own private kinky twisted porno show with her gay husband that she humiliates in front of real strong superior men.

I hope those that even have a question about any of this, will realize the sheer power of it all.
 
I have read this and some responses, some have different views but its true "each to their own"
I am certainly not gay and I have my own personal feelings on gay blokes, which I am not going to voice
I am certainly masculine in all ways, and can assure you no one would dare insult me to my face with any sense for their ability to remain standing and not be looking for medical attention after doing so
I am a cuckold yes!!!! became one before I had ever heard the word, when I got married I was extremely jealous and the thought of my girlfiend who I married seeing any one would have been unthinkable for me to deal with UNTIL.........................I CAUGHT HER CHEATING
I caught her actually fucking two black blokes in a car and watched unseen and then confronted her when she came home, and strangely to my amazement I wanted to fuck her and I did
the next morning after not sleeping I was devastated and we rowed all day
That night I decided to kick her out , but something stirred inside me and after rowing all day I was so fucking mad she tried all ways to get me to forgive her, and she tried to instigate sex with me and I and ended up fucking her asking all sort of questions about how long it had ben going on , how big they were, were they good etc etc and I realised how turned on it made me hearing her tell me
I later asked if she would do it again for me to watch, she looked at me surprised and I asked her to arramge to meet them again that night which she did and again I watched secretly them fuck her agin in the car in same spot
she came home and we fucked again and again
the following morning I was again gutted but also aroused but more or less adamant I couldt handle her cheating and I was going throw her out
only to find I wanted her to do it again just for me to watch , this went on and on for weeks, and basically I was using her to satisfy my curiousity and the sex after
three months went by and I was still wanting her to fuck them until one day shetold me she had missed her periods
only to find out she was pregnant, the rows started then , and I stiil wanted her to fuck them after a few days of rows before I did finally kick her out
11 months later we got back together I still had my feelings about her fucking other men, I had no idea why, or a clue why but it was so intense how it was making me so horny
many yrs later I found out about the term "cuckold" so I was one!!!!!
I still am 29 yrs later!!!!!
so as I said each to their own!!!!!!
 
Well you are totally right , for me im a cuckold only by fantasy, i like to fantasize about my wife being with other men and i told my wife about it , she understands that as a fantasy only and we role play her with other men , we both like it , but when it come to reality I refuse to let any men touch a single hair of her , and she always tell me she can't made sex with other men ...
I think it all about the porn movie which show us how housewives like to have sex with other men and how the black are bigger and better, its only. Myth cause i know that the black men dick is 6 inches in average and mine is 6 inches also so its only a nice sexy big fantasy...
 
yes you are right I'm 7 inches and told I'm bigger than many she has had, but she has had lot bigger and many have been black but some white I have huge pref for her fucking black but it not all about what I want now, she chooses not me! having said that despite what many proclaim the biggest ever she has had by far is white guy from Scotland with huge mop ginger hair her bosses cousin he introduced her to few yrs ago telling her he had huge cock but to be honest id hardly say hes her type in looks or who I would think she would be attracted to but she says hes brilliant fuck so she goes back all time
 
Some of you here really enjoy the cuckold lifestyle.

But I cannot understand for those white males who participate in it, does their inner masculinity not kick in once in a while or is that non-existent? I'm keen to stimulate debate. All thoughts and opinions would be welcomed from any point of view.
great and hot question !!!!!!!!
 
Personally for me anything that verges on the homosexual is a big turn off. I like femininity only, femininity that submits to masculinity.
I am no expert. But from what I read about on this site, there are so many variations on a theme. Some guys will swallow the bull. some won't. I don't give much credence to labels; Pleasure can be experienced by others in ways I can't possibly relate too, but if They drive pleasure from it--go for it. I love the question..............
 
The act of the husband is gay to some but I think it is really about the white husband surrendering his manhood along with his wife. If your wife wants to be with a black man and wants her relationship to her white husband to become the right kind of relationship-she may want to emasculate him somewhat. She may need that to make her shed the last inhibitions so that she can cuckold her husband. And I also agree there are different levels of cuckolding but a pure cuckolding would be with the husband not getting to have sex and the wife having a healthy sex life with a black man or perhaps many black men. I think the act is extreme and the wife can accomplish the cuckolding in other ways but for some it may be needed. It really is the choice of the wife and her lover, not the white boy.
well stated...........
 
As far as I understand the word Cuckold, it means "the husband of an unfaithful wife." So as I understand it the wife has to be unfaithful before the husband is considered a cuckold. But If the husband has full knowledge as mine does, would that make him a cuckold or would that be a husband that understands I have wants and/or needs. My husband can fully make me sexually happy but I do like other guys also. My husband and I have a great life together but we do like sex. He is there for me when I have "MEN" over or I go to their place for sex. I am not in love I just like the spice it adds to our sex life. My husband has a girlfriend that he plays with sometimes when I am home so I can watch and sometimes she comes over when I am at work. But we are both open with each other and tell each other how fun it was and how she did this to him or that guy did this to me. I think a lot about this topic is more fantasy then "gay" or "humilation". I do understand some men are willing to give everything to make their wife happy, but to me my husband is happy to let me do what I want. I do like different men but as far as seeing my husband in a cock cage or sucking a black man off after he has cum in me is not my idea of fun, nor is it his.
well said..........................
 
It's OK to be gay.

Not all of us feel that way inclined but if that's what you want to do, that's your choice.

Personally I find the idea of interracial sex hotter - both ways. Big black cocks in white girls and big white cocks in black girls. The latter is extremely underrated. Cuckolds won't appreciate that and may attack me for that. They'll say I'm not a purist and that I won't submit to the ideal. This is true, I am not a sissy cuckold because to me that is a load of *******, sissy cuckolds can be that if they want to be. That doesn't change the fact that interracial sex is hot.
I agree with you that interacial is HOT! So are lots of other ways to have sex.. its endless:))))))))))))
 
I respect all of the opinions here and there is nothing wrong with being gay. Having said that I think the point has been missed. The sexual desires of the white boy/sissy/cuckold/husband or whatever he is to be called are not important. What is important is the sexual desires of the black man primarily and the white woman next. As it turns out these two desires are the same because if there is no interference the white woman will go to the black man and he will take her in the way that he wants. This is just mom nature. The natural tendency of the white boy is going to be to step aside. This may be out of fear but more likely will be because of the cuckold's inadequacy and his respect for what the black man and his wife are doing. Sex for a white cuckold is by using his own hand while he is thinking about the real sex or watching it or whatever. The gay stuff talked about is ok if it is initiated by the black man for his own pleasure and for his own reasons such as humilation or a form of discipline or as a visual to the wife. That makes it an act of submission for the white boy and that is ok. If it is initiated by the white boy for his own pleasure primarily it then becomes totally wrong. So I think this should not be about labels but about what the purpose of these realtionships is about. It is about pleasure for the black man and white woman. It is also about who calls the shots and that should not be the white boy. So I look at the post by THEDC. It is short and to the point. He is not into worrying about the cuckold's needs. He is focusing on his needs. That is how it should be and the white boy shoud feel respect. As a white boy that should be enough for any of us. End of discussion.

I also must disagree again with the white man/black woman idea. The black woman is going to naturally want to be with the black man. This does not have any taboo aspect or anything and in a way should be thought of as "vanilla" sex. The black man wants the white woman because that seems to me to be the perfect combination. There may be a taboo element to it but it really is just a natural sexual thing. The kinky part is where the white woman is married to a white boy. That gets into black male dominance and white boy respect. The mental aspects of that are very important. This is where the white boy being replaced and surpassed becomes so very important. There is something about a white woman preferring the black man that is just over the top. If you don't believe this look at the IR porn and you will see prominent wedding rings on the white women. Most of us are attracted to that image. Why? It is because that is the fantasy that most of us would like to become reality. So if part of this is about educating everyone to make fantasy into reality I do no think the white man with a black woman helps. It seems unnatural. I for one would vote for image after image of black man sex only. That furthers the cause.
I agree in part... but still, people get off in all sorts of ways...A black male having sex with a fair-skinned female is super sexy. so are lots of other combos...............
 
I must disagree with you again.

To me, I prefer my cuckoldry at the cultural level. That is to say, a situation where instead of having a white husband they just marry the black man instead.

I am not from the USA and I don't buy the whole "big scary black man" bullshit that seems to pervade in your culture.
point taken,,,,,,,,,,
 
I'm from Argentina and cultural tendencies are different. Here you'll find a lot of black women trying to fuck white guys. Black women think that blonde or white boys are like a trophy! And whiteguys think black women are better in the sex relations than white women...
lots of ways to look at this,,,,,,,,,,,,
 
I haven't had that experience but I guess my husband wouldn't have any arguments sucking the cock from a black lover if I allow him to do it.
In one ocasion, when I had told him about how my ex black boyfriend and me had fucked, my hubby became crazy of pleasure thinking about us having sex! He told me that he would have liked be watching us having sex. I had told him perhaps my ex boyfriend couldn't have obtained an erection if anybody would have been watching him...(I'm not sure about this because my ex was so potent and virile and I had never seen him with his penis in flaccis conditions during sex) then my husband said me that if my ex boyfriend wouldn't have had an erection, he could have assisted him sucking his cock with me. This was only a fantasy for him but I guess he would have made it. He is not gay and he is not going to be one of them but his extreme excitation about watching me with my ex having sex, could induce him to have any kind of thoughts.
hot!!!!!!!!!!
 
For us it was a solution and addition. I have always been attracted to and able to get very beautiful women with high sex drives but usually they would cheat because psychologically, they had a need for bigger cocks from other men. It wouldn't have mattered who they were with, the result would probably be the same. Eventually I realized how hot it would be to experience this in a healthy way with my then wife and at the same time gain some control and confidence in myself knowing its being expressed in a healthy way for a relationship to some extent. After discussing it for months, she agreed with me she wanted other men to fuck her and if we were going to do this, why not have the ideal studd: black, no one we know or loved, hung, fit whom they could both use each other for their own means. That lead to eventual hook ups, more talking, personal growth and experimenting. It completed and satisfied that part of our relationship completely and added something interesting and riskque to our lives and marriage. Playing role reversals safely and allowing her to be dom, me to be a sub, and her to get all the cock she needed to be satisfied from another man and enjoying for those times and meets, letting her selfish humilation side out in a fun safe and healthy way by talking dirty to me, getting fucked, enjoying cum, encouraging me to suck her bulls cocks and eat their creampies while satisfying my own insecurities and accepting her needs and bulls position at those times.
We both enjoyed experiencing together allowing alpha males into our lives for small periods to fuck her and dominate us which made her confident I accepted her need for fitter bigger and hung black males to mount and cum in her pussy which made her feel finer and more satisfied as a married white woman.
Now divorced, I only date white woman long term I can introduce into this lifestyle and who are fine enough to realize their pussy should be shared and that they deserve and need other hung studds to fuck their pussy and fulfill them sexually while my role is supportive and loving in a sub/family oriented role for their pleasure.
Maybe raising a mixed baby would be the ultimate with a permanent regular bull coming over for her to suck and fuck beside me in our bed at anytime while the children are asleep or after she nurses their mixed baby in between us with her legs spread open for him and no panties.
Cuckolding is about her pleasure, strenghtening your marriage, growing as a person and couple and realizing its not just about you and her, but you as a couple and your role as man and husband doing whats right and sharing her pussy you are lucky to have anyways and accepting your woman's sexual needs for black mens cock and cum
wow..........................
 
Back
Top