I don't understand how a white man could tolerate being a cuckold

[Beatten]

As far as I understand the word Cuckold, it means "the husband of an unfaithful wife." So as I understand it the wife has to be unfaithful before the husband is considered a cuckold. But If the husband has full knowledge as mine does, would that make him a cuckold or would that be a husband that understands I have wants and/or needs. My husband can fully make me sexually happy but I do like other guys also. My husband and I have a great life together but we do like sex. He is there for me when I have "MEN" over or I go to their place for sex. I am not in love I just like the spice it adds to our sex life. My husband has a girlfriend that he plays with sometimes when I am home so I can watch and sometimes she comes over when I am at work. But we are both open with each other and tell each other how fun it was and how she did this to him or that guy did this to me. I think a lot about this topic is more fantasy then "gay" or "humilation". I do understand some men are willing to give everything to make their wife happy, but to me my husband is happy to let me do what I want. I do like different men but as far as seeing my husband in a cock cage or sucking a black man off after he has cum in me is not my idea of fun, nor is it his.

 

[calixto]

Some of you here really enjoy the cuckold lifestyle.

But I cannot understand for those white males who participate in it, does their inner masculinity not kick in once in a while or is that non-existent? I'm keen to stimulate debate. All thoughts and opinions would be welcomed from any point of view.

I agree with you. In my case I'm not a cuckold husband but I'd enjoyed a lot when my wife told me how has she made the love with a black boyfriend before me. I have a great interracial fetish since that day!

 

[Big Sister]

As I said there is a distinction between a cuckold who sees himself as a wimp, and a man who simply likes seeing his wife/girlfriend fuck a a black man once in a while.

 

[calixto]

You raise a very important question. In my case, I have pretty well lost my sense of masculinity. I see Black Men as real alpha men that are far Superior to white males.quote]

I agree with you in some points. I'm not consider myself like a weak man and I have not an small penis. But I admire a lot black men because their virile potential.
You see, my wife had gotten a black boyfriend before me. She told me once that they were having sex standing and her boyfriend cummed so quickly. She needed get an orgasm, so she sucked his penis during two or three minutes no more, and it turned as hard as rock. They coupled again in the rear-entry position and they fucked until she obtained her orgasm shouting of pleasure...it took her only few seconds because she was so excited! Susan was still gasping when he could finish again sighing of relief!
He was a first class male! He had an incredible virile potential! I wouldn't make the love as good as him at that moment. He showed her all his penis strength because he couldn't relax after his first orgasm and he could fuck and get a new orgasm again! I would like be like him in that aspect.
Every women would become crazy for a man like him, wouldn't they?

 

[calixto]

I think this says it all................View attachment 35093

Perhaps he's gay, perhaps it was only an excited man... watch your wife being fucked by other could revive an intense excitation...it's hard to understand.

 

[Big Sister]

Perhaps he's gay, perhaps it was only an excited man... watch your wife being fucked by other could revive an intense excitation...it's hard to understand.

He engaged in a homosexual act, that's for sure. That image looks like it's staged by porn actors/actresses anyway.

 

[THEDC]

I draw the line at bi or homo activity. None of that for me.

 

[NEHIGHLANDER]

No, no gay stuff here. Just like seeing the wife get laid by black men...she enjoys it too!

 

[tazloveblack]

call me any thing you like they are just words I love sucking black cock and am not going to stop for anyone because they have narrow minds.

 

[tazloveblack]

I think this says it all................View attachment 35093

OH yes love to do the same thing

 

[Big Sister]

call me any thing you like they are just words I love sucking black cock and am not going to stop for anyone because they have narrow minds.

It's OK to be gay.

Not all of us feel that way inclined but if that's what you want to do, that's your choice.

Personally I find the idea of interracial sex hotter - both ways. Big black cocks in white girls and big white cocks in black girls. The latter is extremely underrated. Cuckolds won't appreciate that and may attack me for that. They'll say I'm not a purist and that I won't submit to the ideal. This is true, I am not a sissy cuckold because to me that is a load of *******, sissy cuckolds can be that if they want to be. That doesn't change the fact that interracial sex is hot.

 

[rocuck]

It's OK to be gay.

Not all of us feel that way inclined but if that's what you want to do, that's your choice.

Personally I find the idea of interracial sex hotter - both ways. Big black cocks in white girls and big white cocks in black girls. The latter is extremely underrated. Cuckolds won't appreciate that and may attack me for that. They'll say I'm not a purist and that I won't submit to the ideal. This is true, I am not a sissy cuckold because to me that is a load of *******, sissy cuckolds can be that if they want to be. That doesn't change the fact that interracial sex is hot.

I respect all of the opinions here and there is nothing wrong with being gay. Having said that I think the point has been missed. The sexual desires of the white boy/sissy/cuckold/husband or whatever he is to be called are not important. What is important is the sexual desires of the black man primarily and the white woman next. As it turns out these two desires are the same because if there is no interference the white woman will go to the black man and he will take her in the way that he wants. This is just mom nature. The natural tendency of the white boy is going to be to step aside. This may be out of fear but more likely will be because of the cuckold's inadequacy and his respect for what the black man and his wife are doing. Sex for a white cuckold is by using his own hand while he is thinking about the real sex or watching it or whatever. The gay stuff talked about is ok if it is initiated by the black man for his own pleasure and for his own reasons such as humilation or a form of discipline or as a visual to the wife. That makes it an act of submission for the white boy and that is ok. If it is initiated by the white boy for his own pleasure primarily it then becomes totally wrong. So I think this should not be about labels but about what the purpose of these realtionships is about. It is about pleasure for the black man and white woman. It is also about who calls the shots and that should not be the white boy. So I look at the post by THEDC. It is short and to the point. He is not into worrying about the cuckold's needs. He is focusing on his needs. That is how it should be and the white boy shoud feel respect. As a white boy that should be enough for any of us. End of discussion.

I also must disagree again with the white man/black woman idea. The black woman is going to naturally want to be with the black man. This does not have any taboo aspect or anything and in a way should be thought of as "vanilla" sex. The black man wants the white woman because that seems to me to be the perfect combination. There may be a taboo element to it but it really is just a natural sexual thing. The kinky part is where the white woman is married to a white boy. That gets into black male dominance and white boy respect. The mental aspects of that are very important. This is where the white boy being replaced and surpassed becomes so very important. There is something about a white woman preferring the black man that is just over the top. If you don't believe this look at the IR porn and you will see prominent wedding rings on the white women. Most of us are attracted to that image. Why? It is because that is the fantasy that most of us would like to become reality. So if part of this is about educating everyone to make fantasy into reality I do no think the white man with a black woman helps. It seems unnatural. I for one would vote for image after image of black man sex only. That furthers the cause.

 

[Big Sister]

I must disagree with you again.

To me, I prefer my cuckoldry at the cultural level. That is to say, a situation where instead of having a white husband they just marry the black man instead.

I am not from the USA and I don't buy the whole "big scary black man" bullshit that seems to pervade in your culture.

 

[Big Sister]

I know this is going to be controversial, but I just think black women look better with a white cock in them - the sexy ones at least. However still that is only occasionally that I enjoy that type of porn, I watch black men on white women far more often.

 

[calixto]

I respect all of the opinions here and there is nothing wrong with being gay. Having said that I think the point has been missed. The sexual desires of the white boy/sissy/cuckold/husband or whatever he is to be called are not important. What is important is the sexual desires of the black man primarily and the white woman next. As it turns out these two desires are the same because if there is no interference the white woman will go to the black man and he will take her in the way that he wants. This is just mom nature. The natural tendency of the white boy is going to be to step aside. This may be out of fear but more likely will be because of the cuckold's inadequacy and his respect for what the black man and his wife are doing. Sex for a white cuckold is by using his own hand while he is thinking about the real sex or watching it or whatever. The gay stuff talked about is ok if it is initiated by the black man for his own pleasure and for his own reasons such as humilation or a form of discipline or as a visual to the wife. That makes it an act of submission for the white boy and that is ok. If it is initiated by the white boy for his own pleasure primarily it then becomes totally wrong. So I think this should not be about labels but about what the purpose of these realtionships is about. It is about pleasure for the black man and white woman. It is also about who calls the shots and that should not be the white boy. So I look at the post by THEDC. It is short and to the point. He is not into worrying about the cuckold's needs. He is focusing on his needs. That is how it should be and the white boy shoud feel respect. As a white boy that should be enough for any of us. End of discussion.

I also must disagree again with the white man/black woman idea. The black woman is going to naturally want to be with the black man. This does not have any taboo aspect or anything and in a way should be thought of as "vanilla" sex. The black man wants the white woman because that seems to me to be the perfect combination. There may be a taboo element to it but it really is just a natural sexual thing. The kinky part is where the white woman is married to a white boy. That gets into black male dominance and white boy respect. The mental aspects of that are very important. This is where the white boy being replaced and surpassed becomes so very important. There is something about a white woman preferring the black man that is just over the top. If you don't believe this look at the IR porn and you will see prominent wedding rings on the white women. Most of us are attracted to that image. Why? It is because that is the fantasy that most of us would like to become reality. So if part of this is about educating everyone to make fantasy into reality I do no think the white man with a black woman helps. It seems unnatural. I for one would vote for image after image of black man sex only. That furthers the cause.

I'm from Argentina and cultural tendencies are different. Here you'll find a lot of black women trying to fuck white guys. Black women think that blonde or white boys are like a trophy! And whiteguys think black women are better in the sex relations than white women...

 

[Big Sister]

That is certainly interesting about Argentina. I had heard that in South America, the 'telenovelas' (television soap operas) portray blond or otherwise Northern European-looking characters, even in Brazil which has a huge black/mixed race population. Meanwhile on the other hand in America and Europe I would argue that blacks and non-whites are elevated by the mass media, the opposite of South America.

 

[rickal66]

I like seeing white women screw black men,
like seeing her get off. I don't mind sharing, etc.
but I'm not into being submissive, maybe seeing her be submissive.
If other guys like that ok by me,
but not all white guys that are into BM/WF sex are subm.
I like screwing white women,
I think black women give better BJ's, some asian, hispanic.
I just wish I WERE BLACK and fucking the white women.

 

[rocuck]

That is certainly interesting about Argentina. I had heard that in South America, the 'telenovelas' (television soap operas) portray blond or otherwise Northern European-looking characters, even in Brazil which has a huge black/mixed race population. Meanwhile on the other hand in America and Europe I would argue that blacks and non-whites are elevated by the mass media, the opposite of South America.

This is interesting to me. I am American and my frame of reference is African American men. I am rather certain that these men are as I have described. Maybe the fact that these men were descended from slaves that were treated harshly and only superior men were able to survive and pass on their seed? The white men had it easy and became soft and weak? And now you have an enormous difference between the white boy and the black man. Maybe this is only in America??? I am a little confused. I would love to get some opinions and instructions from the black men on this site. Does Big Sister have a point and is a white man with a black woman acceptable? Or have I been right? Would everyone be better off if the white boy accepted real cuckoldry and kept his involvement as support with masturbation. Should real sex be for the white woman/black man and black woman/black man combinations. Not a fantasy question. One for real life.

 

[calixto]

Black women and white men are not a fantasy in the world. Perhaps it is not so good fantasy like black men with white women...but exist!

 

[Big Sister]

This is interesting to me. I am American and my frame of reference is African American men. I am rather certain that these men are as I have described. Maybe the fact that these men were descended from slaves that were treated harshly and only superior men were able to survive and pass on their seed? The white men had it easy and became soft and weak? And now you have an enormous difference between the white boy and the black man. Maybe this is only in America??? I am a little confused. I would love to get some opinions and instructions from the black men on this site. Does Big Sister have a point and is a white man with a black woman acceptable? Or have I been right? Would everyone be better off if the white boy accepted real cuckoldry and kept his involvement as support with masturbation. Should real sex be for the white woman/black man and black woman/black man combinations. Not a fantasy question. One for real life.

In the creation of Brazil (which has a majority mixed race population), initially most of the population was created by Portuguese (European) men fucking African imported women.

To be honest I don't buy all this white boy/black man *******. Maybe that's because I'm not American. Maybe it's something in your culture.