Hypocritical (Serious Thread)

GQWhiteBoi

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#1
Hi, guys.

I hope everyone's holidays were fantastic.

Now, on to a serious question, I guess targeted more toward the non-pathetic white men on this website. I'd also like to get the opinions of black men.

I hate to admit this, because I welcome all races and am supportive of bettering race relations in this country, but as a white man I really can't stand seeing a white woman with a black man in public. I think it certainly has to do with some feeling of inferiority, or my current single state.

That being said, I absolutely can't get enough of interracial porn online and it's above and beyond any fetish I've ever had. In fact I'd like to watch in person one day.

Does anyone else feel like this, or am I the ultimate hypocrite? Black men, do you feel this way about seeing white men with black women?

I look forward to this discussion.
 

cause4

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#2
Honestly I dont know whether to cll you a Hypocrite or a racist to be honest. Especially when you can't even explain the reasons why you dislike seeing a black man with a white woman in public. Most times when I hear or read people speak like this 9/10 its because they believe they cannot get something as pleasing as such for themselves,; then the fox and the grapes story kicks in *if I can't have her then fuck both of 'em* meanwhile you'd gladly jack off to their sextapes in private. This thought process is not only immature, its disgusting to me honestly.
 

GQWhiteBoi

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#3
Thanks for the insight, gentlemen. I truly wish I didn't feel this way.

One thing I am not, though, is racist. I've had very serious black girlfriends in the past. Plus my number of black friends actually outnumbers white friends.

I agree that my mindset is a bit unacceptable, especially considering that these interracial relationships provide me with so much sexual pleasure.
 

cause4

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#4
One thing I am not, though, is racist. I've had very serious black girlfriends in the past. Plus my number of black friends actually outnumbers white friends.
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You know...I really wish people would stop saying using this as a defense mechanism to 'prove' they're not racist....especially white people.. It not only makes you look worse...it also makes you look retarded.
 

GQWhiteBoi

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#9
You're right, bro. I apologize.

I just don't think prejudice comes from the fact that I do feel inferior to black men in most regards.
Hell, dude, look at our avatars. Hard not to be self-conscious when you're packing like that.

I'm just not like most of the disgusting bisexual men on here who jerk off to the thought their inferiority.
 

cause4

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#10
lol, I'm not attacking you per se. If you're taking it that way. Am i taking this somewhat personally? hell yes I am, I have dated non black women for years. Even down to the point I was actually pulled over and searched by a cop illegally because he was jealous of my date that he was checking out the entire time. So needless to say...this kind of mentality I will openly say I have problems with this thinking
 

cause4

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#11
even off that experience I don't say 'fuck white guys they pathetic hatin ass pieces of shit'. I know damn well its because his parents didnt teach him any better
 

bm_from_southjersey

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#12
Hi, guys.

I hope everyone's holidays were fantastic.

Now, on to a serious question, I guess targeted more toward the non-pathetic white men on this website. I'd also like to get the opinions of black men.

I hate to admit this, because I welcome all races and am supportive of bettering race relations in this country, but as a white man I really can't stand seeing a white woman with a black man in public. I think it certainly has to do with some feeling of inferiority, or my current single state.

That being said, I absolutely can't get enough of interracial porn online and it's above and beyond any fetish I've ever had. In fact I'd like to watch in person one day.

Does anyone else feel like this, or am I the ultimate hypocrite? Black men, do you feel this way about seeing white men with black women?

I look forward to this discussion.
I'm black, and not a psychologist or psychiatrist, so my opinions/thoughts can be taken with the proverbial grain of salt.

No, I don't get the least bit upset seeing black women with white men. I'm attracted to white women and I married a white woman; furthermore, it isn't mine or anybody's place to be concerned with the racial composition of any couple or couples that I or they encounter.

As for you, I don't know you so I'm not going to take the easy way out and call you a racist, but I will call you conflicted or confused. My opinion, you are frustrated seeing black men with white women because, as you stated, you are single and you want to be the one with that or those particular women. If I had to guess, you would feel the same way if you saw a white woman with a white dude that you felt wasn't worthy of her, i.e. the dude mistreated her, was cheating on her, etc, etc.
 

MrE

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#13
Back when I was a teenager, yes I despised seeing Black men with White women. That came from growing up with parents who never had anything good to say about people of another race, mainly Black.

Now that I have grown up and have a mind of my own, I don't get pissed off about it. Why should I? If that's the kind of guy they like, who am I to get mad about it. I know I'd hate it if I was with a Black or Hispanic female and a guy of their own race couldn't stand that I was with one of their women.
 
#20
GQ--i think you're just mad and think that women doing black guys is degrading for the women, so that's why it turns u on so much---the girls you could never get--you think that black men ruin them.