People in relationships (marriage especially) do two things: (1) Figure out what they can get away with and (2) how to get away with it. It reminds me of my ex-wife. Three years into our marriage she tried to cut me off for non-lifestyle/kink reasons. When I'd decided I'd been reasonable enough I told her if she wasn't going to have sex with me then SHE needed to find me a girlfriend. When her married girlfriends came over I'd tell them about our soon to be "arrangement" and ask if they wanted to swing. When her hot college friends or co-workers came over I'd ask if she'd approached them about filling the "vacancy" in our marriage, to my ex's horror.
She threw fits, cried, screamed and tried the silent treatment and I just told her the time was running out if she wanted to pick the woman, otherwise I'd find my own girlfriend, but I told her that I wouldn't be sneaking around and I'd be fucking my girlfriend in my house and in my bed whether my ex was there or not. She knew I had some crazy ex-girlfriends who would have GOTTEN OFF on being that woman. Oddly enough a few days later the pussy, blowjobs, everything was back in play.Funny how that works.
Six years later my ex is still alone and I'm engaged to someone who puts my needs first (as I do for her) and with whom together we explore each others kinks.
Kudos to the Hotwives who, for whatever reason, say they do not get gratification out of sex with their husbands anymore but do it anyway for him. I'm sure he loves you all the more for it and personally I think it's a tiny price to pay to someone who's dedicated his life to you.
To the cucks: Life is too short to waste any time or energy on a relationship or woman who won't make your physical, sexual or emotional needs a priority. If she's free to fuck whomever, whenever there's really no excuse for not taking care of hubby, even if he's got a tiny dick and lasts 30 seconds.