I am Queen B's husband. Last night we had our usual friend come by for some play time. We had some brief issues with getting use to the situations as this is very new for us. We had some great discussions about trust, and honesty. I know there was apprehension on both our parts to fully express how we felt or what we wanted. Last night was different. I wanted her to feel comfortable being herself. So, i put everything out there i felt, and desired, to show she can trust me with how she felt. In the past i felt the need to be in total control of the situation, and didnt realize that it was affecting the experiences in a negative way. She wanted to be herself. After discussing the boundaries, and assuring each othet we could be open, we decided to go for it. We he got here she answered the door, walked him to the bed, and commanded him to undress and lay down. The she told me to sit down and watch her get fucked. She was very vocal, and it was amazing. I would never be comfortable with not being present, but she was excited with yhe idea, so we compromised. The lights we very low, and i walked up to our second floor balcony to watch, but not be seen. Things got hot!!! She was free. She never made me feel uncomfortable in any way. When he left we had amazing sex, and she was very intent on showing how greatful she was. I think in order for this to be a healthy, and lasting experience, you have to be open, and honest about your feelings. And if you are, you both will be rewarded. Im excited about the future of our experiences.