Husband has let me into his fantasy

Well then, you should cum!
Instead of using your hand though, if hubby is there, why not ask him to show you how he would lick your pussy to prepare it to be stretched by a nice big black cock? He does know that one must lick it before they stick it, doesn't he? ;)

He licks it good too:) But sometimes I just want him to shove it in first:) Sometimes I really want that feeling!
 
Oh OK. But just because you don't have the genetics and a big cock doesn't mean you're a lesser man. You probably have other natural gifts and talents.
I do. I am a very talented & confident person & to be perfectly honest Im usualy the alfa male in situations outside the bedroom (no one knows tho that Im wearing panties & locked in a chastity device & that my wife is probly getting hammered into the mattress by a hung blk guy)
 
I really do yhink that love & understanding are at the core of most cuckold relationships.

It is in all of the successful ones, just as it is in any happy, strong relationship.
Cuckolding is just a "flavor" of relationship and no different than any other flavor (Male Dom/fem sub, Femdom, Hot Wife, etc- even "Vanilla"), if the core isn't built on love, understanding, trust and respect, it will fail.

Most of the time the humiliation play is started because its something that the hubby desires.

This is also true. A loving wife in a marriage that is solidly built on love, understanding, trust and respect has no desire to humiliate her husband nor to see him humiliated by anyone else.

However, in many Dominant Female/submissive male relationships, especially those that incorporate cuckolding, the husband has a desire, a sexual need to experience humiliation in some form. This is no different than someone who enjoys lingerie, foot worship, cross dressing, BDSM play, or any other "fetish".
It does not mean that the husband is actually a person who is a worthless worm, just that he has a need to be made to feel that way on occasion.

A loving wife understands that he has a need and even though she may not understand it, she will accept it and help him experience what he desires, just as he accepts her desires and does his best to enable her to enjoy them as well.

Some individuals want to continue that humiliation roll play 24/7, but that usually doesn't work successfully in LTR, although many successful relationships are based on either a Male or Female Led Relationship (D/s) dynamic.
 
It is in all of the successful ones, just as it is in any happy, strong relationship.
Cuckolding is just a "flavor" of relationship and no different than any other flavor (Male Dom/fem sub, Femdom, Hot Wife, etc- even "Vanilla"), if the core isn't built on love, understanding, trust and respect, it will fail.



This is also true. A loving wife in a marriage that is solidly built on love, understanding, trust and respect has no desire to humiliate her husband nor to see him humiliated by anyone else.

However, in many Dominant Female/submissive male relationships, especially those that incorporate cuckolding, the husband has a desire, a sexual need to experience humiliation in some form. This is no different than someone who enjoys lingerie, foot worship, cross dressing, BDSM play, or any other "fetish".
It does not mean that the husband is actually a person who is a worthless worm, just that he has a need to be made to feel that way on occasion.

A loving wife understands that he has a need and even though she may not understand it, she will accept it and help him experience what he desires, just as he accepts her desires and does his best to enable her to enjoy them as well.

Some individuals want to continue that humiliation roll play 24/7, but that usually doesn't work successfully in LTR, although many successful relationships are based on either a Male or Female Led Relationship (D/s) dynamic.

I would say my husband definitely wears the pants in our house:) I enjoy being submissive to him as well. He's agressive to a point (less now than when we were in our 20s) and can be hot tempered sometimes. He leads and I follow just like I think it should be. Still, I wouldn't say he's a man's man though. He doesn't go out and play with the boys very much but prefers to spend free time (he works a lot:( ) with our ******* and me.
 
.... With all the cuckold humiliation stuff out there I wouldn't have suspected that many men into this sort of thing would appreciate a loving relationship like mine and my husbands.

The more I think about this, I don't think your relationship really fits the cuckold theme in as much as it does a "Hot Wife" style relationship.
I think you and your husband are a bit more traditional "vanilla" with a little "chocolate swirl" in the form of your husband being a bit of a voyeur who wants to watch his favorite porn star (you) playing the part of a wanton slut enjoying a big black cock.
The nice thing about this is that the two of you are a great match because you would obviously enjoy having the staring roll of his fantasies.

There is no real D/s component, no desire for humiliation or any of the usual things that are incorporated in male submission/cuckold relationships. Just a desire on the husbands part to watch his wife enjoy sex with another and a wife who enjoys having a lot of sex. Win-win! :)
 
The more I think about this, I don't think your relationship really fits the cuckold theme in as much as it does a "Hot Wife" style relationship.
I think you and your husband are a bit more traditional "vanilla" with a little "chocolate swirl" in the form of your husband being a bit of a voyeur who wants to watch his favorite porn star (you) playing the part of a wanton slut enjoying a big black cock.
The nice thing about this is that the two of you are a great match because you would obviously enjoy having the staring roll of his fantasies.

There is no real D/s component, no desire for humiliation or any of the usual things that are incorporated in male submission/cuckold relationships. Just a desire on the husbands part to watch his wife enjoy sex with another and a wife who enjoys having a lot of sex. Win-win! :)

Funny he calls me his "hot wife" all the time:) Even wanted to get me a t-shirts that said "Hot wife in training". LOL Yes I think it could be a win win. Just getting comfortable with the reality that he wont freak out. That's the tough part. I think I'm starting to want it more than him though. The guys on here are AMAZING!
 
He licks it good too:) But sometimes I just want him to shove it in first:) Sometimes I really want that feeling!

So take charge and tell him to show you how he wants to see a black man take you with his big black cock.
Tell him to make believe he is a black bull who is going to make you his slut so you can see if it is really something you should do for him.

The thought that that might get you to fuck a black man might be enough motive to inspire a spirited performance. ;)
 
I would say my husband definitely wears the pants in our house:) I enjoy being submissive to him as well. He's agressive to a point (less now than when we were in our 20s) and can be hot tempered sometimes. He leads and I follow just like I think it should be. Still, I wouldn't say he's a man's man though. He doesn't go out and play with the boys very much but prefers to spend free time (he works a lot:( ) with our ******* and me.

That's great!
Backs up what I said about the "Hot Wife" aspect.
He sounds like a great husband who puts his family first. I don't think you need to worry about him freaking out as I'm sure you will be reassuring him how great a husband you think he is and how much you love him.
 
Funny he calls me his "hot wife" all the time:) Even wanted to get me a t-shirts that said "Hot wife in training". LOL Yes I think it could be a win win.

Then he definitely is into the idea of watching you fucking other men, otherwise he wouldn't already know the correct terminology for what his fantasy fetish is.
So along with "Hot Wife in Training", he will soon need to buy you a t-shirt that says "It isn't Cheating if my Husband gets to watch!" :)

Just getting comfortable with the reality that he wont freak out. That's the tough part. I think I'm starting to want it more than him though. The guys on here are AMAZING!

You know, in a Hot Wife sex session, you could ask your husband to take a bit more active part, at least at first, by holding your hand and/or kissing you while you are being fucked just to have some reassuring contact. Just let the Bull know that you are new to this and you need that, I'm sure they will both be happy to accommodate your desires.

The next time your husband brings the subject up, tell him that you are willing to try it if he really wants you to, but you have concerns about how he will feel after actually seeing you with another man, how he might feel if you are truly enjoying it and whatever your other fears are. It is best to get it all out in the open before taking the chance on going there.

If after having a real heart to heart you feel you both want to try it, set the guidelines: what you are willing to do
with the other man, what about condoms, STI/STD testing, will it be someone you know, a website contact or a random pick up, will your husband participate as in a three way or just watch and make occasional reassuring contact. Think about whatever other issues that may come up and how you want to handle them.

Discussing all of these issues tends to make the realities set in a bit and give you both a chance to address any second thoughts or concerns.

Once you get through all that if you are both still excited and ready to do it, I hope you find a wonderful, considerate Bull to take your Hot Wife Cherry!
 
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