How would you convince a husband ?

[destinybebe33]

It’s pretty common for husbands to try to convince their wives to get blacked , but not the other way around . If we’re a woman trying to convince your husband to get on board with the Hotwife lifestyle , how would you word it exactly ? Let’s say you only have a 200 word limit ? What exactly would you say to convince him ?

 

[Northerncouple]

you wouldn't have to say too much to me. All you need to say is that you need to be stretched and you really want him to watch . if he's into it he will get super hard. then you'll know. Then take it from there and say you wanna be a BBC slut. as long as you always include him he'll be into it

 

[raf]

It’s pretty common for husbands to try to convince their wives to get blacked , but not the other way around . If we’re a woman trying to convince your husband to get on board with the Hotwife lifestyle , how would you word it exactly ? Let’s say you only have a 200 word limit ? What exactly would you say to convince him ?

I can only dream of a similar situation, your definitely in a rare position. My assumption is that he is a man, it should be easy for him to go along with your desires. Above all, be honest. Good luck.

 

[MagicMikeATX]

It’s pretty common for husbands to try to convince their wives to get blacked , but not the other way around . If we’re a woman trying to convince your husband to get on board with the Hotwife lifestyle , how would you word it exactly ? Let’s say you only have a 200 word limit ? What exactly would you say to convince him ?

This is very confusing...
We have no idea who this is talking (wife or hubby?)
It appears you BOTH post under this profile and hubby has already mentioned several times that this is His fantasy as much as Hers, soooo...? ?

 

[destinybebe33]

Sorry this is Destiny and I was curious because my husband told me that most white men want this , and my friend is curious but doesn’t know how to approach her husband , so what should she say to him ?

 

[10pt5applhed]

Sorry this is Destiny and I was curious because my husband told me that most white men want this , and my friend is curious but doesn’t know how to approach her husband , so what should she say to him ?

Your friend? Tell her to go to South Oak Cliff. Problem solved

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Sorry this is Destiny and I was curious because my husband told me that most white men want this , and my friend is curious but doesn’t know how to approach her husband , so what should she say to him ?

Oh for a friend okay lol
Well I know a LOT of white people, I don't think most white men want their wife fucking black guys lol ?
This is definitely a Lifestyle thing. It's not for everyone.
But your FRIENDS will have to get into SWINGING first and get used to fucking other people beside BBC .
There are no magical 200 words that will change a person all at once.
If that were the case I'd be fucking triple the amount of women than I currently do ?

 

[robbiewillsuck]

you have to talk smut during sex - ride on top of his cock - put your finger in his mouth and tell him to suck - he might suck but more exciting if you tell him to suck. While sucking your finger - tell him to fantasize. Ahe cums ride his face - tell him to fantasize -- depending on the smut - tell him to fantasize that you just fucked another cock and now he is licking your pussy.

 

[MistressAria]

It took me 3 years to convince my husband to even accept this, never mind like it. I have a whole website dedicated to that journey, never mind 200 words!

 

[Mistertinycuck]

It’s pretty common for husbands to try to convince their wives to get blacked , but not the other way around . If we’re a woman trying to convince your husband to get on board with the Hotwife lifestyle , how would you word it exactly ? Let’s say you only have a 200 word limit ? What exactly would you say to convince him ?

Why is black dick the best in 200 words or less? Ha ha. I could talk for an hour about it and still not get to the point.

Lucky for me and every QOS/Hotwife/Sissy a picture is worth a THOUSAND words. Lord, I’m looking forward to seeing those pics!!!

 

[Tk11339]

[QUOTE = "destinybebe33, post: 2563062, członek: 198194"]
Przepraszam, że to Przeznaczenie i byłem ciekawy, ponieważ mój mąż powiedział mi, że większość białych mężczyzn tego chce, a moja przyjaciółka jest ciekawa, ale nie wie, jak podejść do męża, więc co powinna mu powiedzieć?
[/ZACYTOWAĆ]
większość mężczyzn woli uprawiać seks niż cipkę. najprawdopodobniej w jego głowie ha ha ha

 

[Bristolangela]

Find out what drives him, what he likes and mould yourself around that, work on what he likes and ease in your desires around that scenario.
Alternatively,,,
Ask him to wear your Knicks one day while your out,,, you'll be suprised how compliant and responsive he is whilst he's out with you wear your lingerie, then work on that x

 

[Marco3311]

Sorry this is Destiny and I was curious because my husband told me that most white men want this , and my friend is curious but doesn’t know how to approach her husband , so what should she say to him ?

Well, okay, I see a lot of advises written with cuck minds.
Problem is, we do not know if your friends husband has a cuck mind.
So forget the "Tell him you want to fuck big cock, and if he gets hard he wants it" and "All white men want this".

Communication is the key. She needs to find out if he is a little submissive and/or has a cuck mind. If he hasn't, then there is no way she can pull it off.
Or find out if he is open to an open marriage, that would have a little higher succesrate.
Be aware that most men do not want to be a cuck, dispite what every one tells here.

 

[canweplayornah]

Sorry this is Destiny and I was curious because my husband told me that most white men want this , and my friend is curious but doesn’t know how to approach her husband , so what should she say to him ?

She should start talking fantasies with him. Let him navigate the conversation in the beginning. If he seems shy or to subtle then share "some" of hers while explaining she never wants a replacement for him just kinky fantasies that can be possibly played out if he's down.

I think the hardest part for men and women is to accept that they might be in a marriage that their partner will never allow this lifestyle.

 

[slinky1]

I was 23yo when I was first cuckolded (constantly behind my back) and I'd say it took me 2 years to get over the hurt/ humiliation/ trust issues/ jealousy etc. Another 2 years of either accepting it, turning a blind eye to it and also painfully having to reconcile with myself that my penis size played a big part in why she wanted other men instead of myself and the rejection of it all.

It was not until my early 30's that I truly began to enjoy it, seek it out, find as many men as I could to fuck her and relished in SPH. By mid 30's I was a 'full blown' cuckold, very submissive, very bi and chased cock as much as she did. I've been like that for the last 20 years and love the lifestyle, could n't be anyone else but a cuck, its who I truly am. (very liberating)

I'm not to sure you can 'convince' a husband to become a cuckold, most men would ******* at the thought of their wife with another man, some would even blow his brains out if the could. Not too sure you can 'convince' a wife to become a hotwife, and to want to fuck other men she either has a slutty desire or not I believe.

Think its a slow burn entering this lifestyle and keeping your marriage intact as well. Perhaps start with vanilla swinging, and having him watch her with other men, whether that be black, white big cock or small. Its a lot to take in the first time watching another males ass clenched, balls raise while he unloads into your wife and he's just using her pussy for his own primal desires and that alone.

 

[maccachew]

Most men wont want this under any arrangement. As mentioned your best bet is to explore fantasies and see if swinging is agreeable to the husband. Think of it in reverse, how would you react if your husband suggested he get to have something on the side?

I don't know that most white guys won't go along with it.. I really is a matter of approach. But I do agree 5hat 200 words won't resolve OPS friend's situation

 

[Arich2345]

Talk dirty to him about your fantasy of fucking BBC. )

 

[slinky1]

Most men, regardless of race, are not interested in their wife/girlfriend fucking other men. Anyone suggesting that a large percentage of white men would go along with a hotwife/cuckold lifestyle are living in an echo chamber.

LOL, I totally agree. 99.9% of men would never want it, need it, accept it or seek it out... The other 0.01% are on sites like this, living it, wanting, fantasizing about it or masturbating to it. But I doubt the willing cuckold population is any more than half or 1%. A higher proportion of unwiling/ unknowing cuckolds are obviously out there, but to find a man/ husband who'd want to see his wifes legs locked around a better lovers waist while they climax together, would be quite rare I think.

 

[kaito77]

LOL, I totally agree. 99.9% of men would never want it, need it, accept it or seek it out... The other 0.01% are on sites like this, living it, wanting, fantasizing about it or masturbating to it. But I doubt the willing cuckold population is any more than half or 1%. A higher proportion of unwiling/ unknowing cuckolds are obviously out there, but to find a man/ husband who'd want to see his wifes legs locked around a better lovers waist while they climax together, would be quite rare I think.

Yeah I agree and yet on 1% maybe just 1 / 1000 would to loved this lifestyle with woman with black only, 999 / 1000 just would just loved look sometimes no more

 

[James Moody]

Try a slice of the "how would you feel" approach. Talk to him - straight, during sex, watching porn - whatever - about having sex with other women. Tell him it would turn you on. While walking down the street or going out, talk about how you'd like to see him doing whatever with that woman over there. Don't say anything about your desire. This approach begins to get him in a 'sex, not with you", fantasy-type mindset. I don't care how much he might protest, he WILL begin to think about it a little but be naturally hesitant or embarrassed to admit it - let alone bring it up.

UNTIL…

He turns to you and wonders “why the hell are you bringing this up? Do YOU want to fuck other men?”

The door’s open…walk on in and begin the communication. No guarantee he’ll flip immediately (probably won’t), but as a few have said here, communicating is the key. And remember, corny as it sounds, you have to first plant the seeds. The flower doesn’t appear immediately, but once planted, you water it, give it sun, keep the weeds out, and one day you’re fucking all the bbc you can find! (Psst! Start in Baltimore..)