when I first introduced IR porn,, I could tell immediately that she got really turned on, ( so did I ) we started having 3 somes but with white guys at first as we didn't know any blacks, until we meet a Realtor here in town for business, he was really good looking, she was the one that suggested that she would like to get together with him, I finally gave him a call, the rest is history,, until he moved away several yrs later