This is going to sound insane to some wives, alphas and superior black guys but to any white husband who likes to wear panties or has to wear chastity it is an issue!! How to stop yourself getting erect. I use numbing cream when i'm in chastity. i'm given time each morning to apply it and it feels great. for about 2 hours my cock feels like soup. It's like i don't even have one. But when it wears off i go back to random uncontrollable erections. You wouldn't think 4 and a half inches could hurt anyone but it does..... me!! lol Chastity has helped, i don't get erect nearly as often now but what methods (if any) do other cuckolds use to stop them? obviously female hormones would do it but i'm not pretty enough to be a girl. lol Just so you black masters know, we can cum even without an erection. I know you guys worry about us.