I know there are tons of tutorials out there on this. However, I am at a point with my wife where I am not sure how to move forward.
She is an x-bartender and she has told me many times that black men are interested in her and told me how they hit on her when bartending. She is blonde with big tits and a large round ass. She tells me she thinks black men like her more than white men. The bar was about 80% white but black people were there often enough. All the other bartenders were white as well.
It took her a long time to do it but finally my wife and I watch IR porn. She says black men do not turn her on. However, I can tell by her body and how wet she gets that the fantasy of a black man really turns her on - more than any other fantasy. She says it only turns her on because she sees it turns me on.
When I tell her to turn on a movie she generally turns on white only porn but when a scene comes on with a black man I can tell she really gets going and cant keep her eyes off it. She tries to look like she is not watching so I turn her body so she is facing the screen. She gets really hot when we do this but then after tells me it was only because she could see it was turning me on.
She is open to the idea of swinging but says she wants a white man. There was one occasion when drinking that she told me a black guy would be ok but she was very *******.
She has also started talking dirty during sex and even more so when giving me a hand job or blow job. She now will say things like "you want to see his cock fucking my white ass" or will just slip the word "white" into the dirty talk. What turns me on the most is to see how much it turns her on - I know this is what she says to me but it is really the reason it turns me on so much. It is also common for her to kiss me after sucking me - this also seems to turn her on very much.
I thought maybe she was just doing this thinking I wanted it but then the other night I went down on her and it was taking a really long time for her to finish. I mentioned her "white ass" and "how men want to fuck her round white ass" and she went nuts and had an amazing O within seconds.
Anyone have any advice? Do you think she is being honest and is doing it for me or do you think this is something she wants but is afraid to say.
One last note... My wife is from a small town and there were no black people when she was growing up. I met her when she was only 17. When I first met her she told me about a couple black celebrities that were black and she thought they were hot. Then when I moved her to cities she stopped saying anything like that. Not sure if this matters but I think it may all be part of it.
I also attached of a photo of her ass so you can get a visual
She is an x-bartender and she has told me many times that black men are interested in her and told me how they hit on her when bartending. She is blonde with big tits and a large round ass. She tells me she thinks black men like her more than white men. The bar was about 80% white but black people were there often enough. All the other bartenders were white as well.
It took her a long time to do it but finally my wife and I watch IR porn. She says black men do not turn her on. However, I can tell by her body and how wet she gets that the fantasy of a black man really turns her on - more than any other fantasy. She says it only turns her on because she sees it turns me on.
When I tell her to turn on a movie she generally turns on white only porn but when a scene comes on with a black man I can tell she really gets going and cant keep her eyes off it. She tries to look like she is not watching so I turn her body so she is facing the screen. She gets really hot when we do this but then after tells me it was only because she could see it was turning me on.
She is open to the idea of swinging but says she wants a white man. There was one occasion when drinking that she told me a black guy would be ok but she was very *******.
She has also started talking dirty during sex and even more so when giving me a hand job or blow job. She now will say things like "you want to see his cock fucking my white ass" or will just slip the word "white" into the dirty talk. What turns me on the most is to see how much it turns her on - I know this is what she says to me but it is really the reason it turns me on so much. It is also common for her to kiss me after sucking me - this also seems to turn her on very much.
I thought maybe she was just doing this thinking I wanted it but then the other night I went down on her and it was taking a really long time for her to finish. I mentioned her "white ass" and "how men want to fuck her round white ass" and she went nuts and had an amazing O within seconds.
Anyone have any advice? Do you think she is being honest and is doing it for me or do you think this is something she wants but is afraid to say.
One last note... My wife is from a small town and there were no black people when she was growing up. I met her when she was only 17. When I first met her she told me about a couple black celebrities that were black and she thought they were hot. Then when I moved her to cities she stopped saying anything like that. Not sure if this matters but I think it may all be part of it.
I also attached of a photo of her ass so you can get a visual
