How to move her to next level...

[Curiouslynew]

Porn, toys, pictures, what's next?

 

[tiny_tim]

Where are you now? Have you already tried those things?

 

[MacNfries]

Porn, toys, pictures, what's next?

First, there needs to be a desire or positive discussion like her willingness to role play or fantasize. If she has no interest in sex with other people, or has a hang up on race, you can spare both of you the frustration, particularly if she feels she's getting what she needs at home.

 

[Curiouslynew]

I'm sure there is an interest. It's breaking down that nervous barrier. For me maybe even more so than her!