How to keep your professional life private?

[NEHIGHLANDER]

As someone who owns his own business, I have to keep this stuff private. It would be devastating for us personally and professionally in our "real" life. To that end, I am very cautious about where and when my wife meets up with her black lovers and usually meet them many miles away from where we live. I am also extremely careful a about what I share here, no unblurred pics and keep specific details a secret.

 

[xBbcHotWifex]

Try not to let my wife fuck everything that moves

 

[TheUnkno1]

Fight club-

Lol. This thread does remind me of Fight Club in some kind of way.

 

[AngelWings]

For those of y’all who have jobs like doctor, lawyer, government employee, etc. How do you keep your professional lives under wraps while still enjoying your lifestyle? I recently met a lady and both of us have professions that could be compromised due to the things we do. My question is do you disclose your profession to your partners or keep it a secret? In the past I’ve told partners “My job is boring, you wouldn’t want to hear about it” but now I tell them that what we do has to be an absolute secret because if it got out it could ruin my career. How do you go about keeping your career intact or do you omit it from talks completely?

Well my job is far from as high profile as one of those but still with the modern world it seems as anyone could be canceled for any reason. I probably don't keep enough secret about my work life from partners but I figure a lot of them are in the same boat when it comes to them having to keep a certain amount of separation or secrecy when it comes to their everyday lives. My job has even lead to me meeting some amazing people in the lifestyle or similar ones and I have been fortunate not to have that come back and bite me.

 

[roythe]

As someone who owns his own business, I have to keep this stuff private. It would be devastating for us personally and professionally in our "real" life. To that end, I am very cautious about where and when my wife meets up with her black lovers and usually meet them many miles away from where we live. I am also extremely careful a about what I share here, no unblurred pics and keep specific details a secret.

Has amy been with any one recently

 

[endlust]

For those of y’all who have jobs like doctor, lawyer, government employee, etc. How do you keep your professional lives under wraps while still enjoying your lifestyle? I recently met a lady and both of us have professions that could be compromised due to the things we do. My question is do you disclose your profession to your partners or keep it a secret? In the past I’ve told partners “My job is boring, you wouldn’t want to hear about it” but now I tell them that what we do has to be an absolute secret because if it got out it could ruin my career. How do you go about keeping your career intact or do you omit it from talks completely?

As most have said, stay as discreet as possible. I don't blast my face out on websites or apps and I keep an alternative phones and emails for this stuff. If talk of careers comes up, I talk about what I do but not where I work. I never use my real name either. I don't like being recorded or having my picture taken so if a couple really wants to do that, I'll just leave.

Encounters from work are limited and, though they'll have my real name, they still don't have my real number and I don't send them anything explicit that would be used against me. You can use a P.O. box for the work address so that connection isn't made either.

Never take anyone to your real home and be wary of going to theirs. Hotels are fine but if you have the capital, renting or buying units is better since you can do get those through a business or trust which will give you some shielding from public searches.

 

[roythe]

Has amy been with any one recently

Are u going to be writing a storie about her recent dates xx

 

[SharonSM]

I think most comments covered this but discretion is the priority. Don't post your photo unless you want it identified. AI is a new game changer with finding your posts, location and social media accounts. After that it's all about piecing together who you are, your likes, tags and public records such as address, job profiles and any other family activities to may be part of. It only take one one determined person who want's to out you for whatever reason and you become famous in this dark secret. Unless you are an OF, PHub or Xhmster creator, be vigilant. Those husbands posting their wives without consent wait for the blow black when someone really want's to find your personal and safe space. This is a fun journey but it can become a nightmare! Safety before fantasy and safety of your real family!

 

[mrscondo]

My downfall was allowing intimate photos of me and my Bull. Husband found them and that was that. Worthless marriage but I paid dearly to keep the divorce as quiet as possible.

 

[hard2please]

Absolute secret? If so concerned, why post face picture on this site?

I agree, absolute secret!! I actually on here looking for photos and a couple video's my husband put on her. We are divorced now but i would like to get them off. I have found a few photos showing my face or 90% of my face but haven't found the videos. I had no idea and didn't think he would post ant of them, all for us and personal but he's was a ass hole!

 

[CJ BlkDom]

I agree, absolute secret!! I actually on here looking for photos and a couple video's my husband put on her. We are divorced now but i would like to get them off. I have found a few photos showing my face or 90% of my face but haven't found the videos. I had no idea and didn't think he would post ant of them, all for us and personal but he's was a ass hole!

The vengeful evil ex!

 

[hard2please]

The vengeful evil ex!

He didn't post after we divorced it was a couple years before I just happened to get his laptop, then came the divorce!

 

[CJ BlkDom]

He didn't post after we divorced it was a couple years before I just happened to get his laptop, then came the divorce!

Oh that evil SOB!

 

[Submither]

Have a separate profile with limited information for trusted connections.

On this forum, bare minimum profie.

For doing that you'll be accused of FAKE and CUCK regularly. (been called WHITE once!).

Doesn't matter, stay safe and private. Meet sincere people open up a bit to them and get acquainted.......safely.

Ignore the whiners and haters that just want to attack you.

 

[Darkjumper]

For those of y’all who have jobs like doctor, lawyer, government employee, etc. How do you keep your professional lives under wraps while still enjoying your lifestyle? I recently met a lady and both of us have professions that could be compromised due to the things we do. My question is do you disclose your profession to your partners or keep it a secret? In the past I’ve told partners “My job is boring, you wouldn’t want to hear about it” but now I tell them that what we do has to be an absolute secret because if it got out it could ruin my career. How do you go about keeping your career intact or do you omit it from talks completely?

First mistake is telling. Maybe it's my time in special ops where secrecy is paramount. Sure it's extreme, but everyone has a breaking point, so if they don't know , they can't tell. People get into their feelings, and self preservation always wins. When you tell, you give ammunition that you pray the day doesn't come when the use it against you. So, the key to keeping church and state separate, is a closed mouth.

 

[Loridan]

We keep our fun very private
Years ago before I was married I got with several married or super committed engaged women.
One was 41, I was 23. She was happily married and loved her family. We had a steady almost every Thursday meet-up at my place. I was her side peice. She was the manager at my credit union. There was no way I would have told anyone.
Different girl my age. Preachers girl, no lie where my grandma attended church. Very upstanding family. I have no idea how many times I fucked her, always at my place. I never told anyone. I got with 3 married church wife's and 3 of the single girls at church. I kept it quiet.
Some of my friends would brag about what they hooked up with but I never did.
Across the street where I worked was an informal steak/chicken place, went for lunch often. Probably 20 young women were servers. Constant flow of new girls. It was like shooting fish in a barrel, I "dated" many of these servers. Some were just once or twice but there was some long term hook-ups. I never told anyone.

 

[Rene Mills]

As someone who owns his own business, I have to keep this stuff private. It would be devastating for us personally and professionally in our "real" life. To that end, I am very cautious about where and when my wife meets up with her black lovers and usually meet them many miles away from where we live. I am also extremely careful a about what I share here, no unblurred pics and keep specific details a secret.

Exactly. On another thread someone said the only way to being fired for doing this is to have your own business. People that own their own businesses need to be discreet still. They can still be harmed

 

[Rene Mills]

Have a separate profile with limited information for trusted connections.

On this forum, bare minimum profie.

For doing that you'll be accused of FAKE and CUCK regularly. (been called WHITE once!).

Doesn't matter, stay safe and private. Meet sincere people open up a bit to them and get acquainted.......safely.

Ignore the whiners and haters that just want to attack you.

That’s interesting. You’re on another thread saying that companies cannot fire people for being swingers and encouraging others to tell everyone about their sex lives.

Then you want to pretend that victim here would expose who you are. This site just wants e to verify I’m an actual women. Not divulge who I am. They want you to do the same. You could easily show you’re a black man and remain anonymous. People looking to protect themselves from fakes aren’t whiners and haters.

 

[AnnieS]

I agree, absolute secret!! I actually on here looking for photos and a couple video's my husband put on her. We are divorced now but i would like to get them off. I have found a few photos showing my face or 90% of my face but haven't found the videos. I had no idea and didn't think he would post ant of them, all for us and personal but he's was a ass hole!

Thats a criminal act and you can go after him.

 

[AnnieS]

That’s interesting. You’re on another thread saying that companies cannot fire people for being swingers and encouraging others to tell everyone about their sex lives.

Then you want to pretend that victim here would expose who you are. This site just wants e to verify I’m an actual women. Not divulge who I am. They want you to do the same. You could easily show you’re a black man and remain anonymous. People looking to protect themselves from fakes aren’t whiners and haters.

I have serious reservations that this poster is indeed a man of color at all.