How to get wife to try for first time?

[young cuck]

My wife knows I like interracial porn and has even watched it with me...she's even let me use a big black dildo on her but when I ask if she wants to try having sex with somebody else she says she's just not interested and doesn't want to....how do I change this ?

 

[young cuck]

By the way I've been on this site for quite a while the only reason ive never verified is because I'm the only one into the lifestyle my wife isn't if she was I would get verified

 

[Shad32]

Sounds like you are in the same boat I am. My fiancée really likes it when I use the black dildo on her; but doesn’t like to admit it. The first time I used it on her she came hard as soon as I put it in, only got it in half way; but she said it was amazing that I made her cum from just sucking on her nipples and my “fingers” though she was well aware that it was the dildo not my fingers.
I have told her that I wouldn’t mind her getting a lover since I work full time and have night classes; but she also says that she isn’t interested. I am hoping to set up a Bull to meet at a club and just dance and lightly flirt with her to try and get her interested; but haven’t had the time to set anything up yet. You do have an advantage that she will watch ir porn with you, I would say keep watching it with her and slowly introduce some hot wife and mild cuckold porn and let it work on her. Good luck

 

[Torpedo]

My wife knows I like interracial porn and has even watched it with me...she's even let me use a big black dildo on her but when I ask if she wants to try having sex with somebody else she says she's just not interested and doesn't want to....how do I change this ?

You probably can't. For many people the fantasy is satisfactory. You can bring it up from time to time and express your support if she decides to try it. Contrary to what you might read here not every woman is craving a Big Black Cock. Your wife appears to be happy with what you are giving her and she has a healthy fantasy life. Enjoy what you have.

 

[MacNfries]

young cuck ... its your desire and fantasy, not hers. Find out what her deepest sexual fantasy is, and give it to her, and she may be willing to reciprocate, and enjoy that as well. Most married ladies (unless there is already stress in the marriage) don't want to risk a destroyed marriage over these kinds of things ... as it always ends up being her fault for doing it. Also , children in the home is a major concern ... until you actually see your wife taking another man's cock, you really don't know how you'll react or what mental damage to the marriage is caused to either her for doing it, or you for regretting she did. Be careful what you wish for ... it has as many down sides as it does up sides.
Mac

 

[husband77]

Get a girl ******* truth comes out if confronted

 

[wildfuncpl]

I initially got into it because we web cammed on a site. I had a black guy that would regularly come and chat and request private time where he could see me and I could see him. I enjoyed making him cum and also use my black dildo to make myself cum. I didnt want to admit it at first because I thought my husband would get mad even though he enjoyed watching it. However, after many long honest discussions i decided to let him know that i wanted to fuck a real black cock and not just a dildo. This eventually took place after careful consideration, many emails, and requirements via CL. now it's much harder to find someone since CL is no longer but our requirements have not changed. Good luck on your endeavors. Be honest and have honest conversations.

 

[Maleslave]

My wife knows I like interracial porn and has even watched it with me...she's even let me use a big black dildo on her but when I ask if she wants to try having sex with somebody else she says she's just not interested and doesn't want to....how do I change this ?

Just like you I realy want my wife to cuck me. She know and play roleplay. Whe both watched IR porn wich realy turned her on and she only get good orgasm fucking her big dildo. She ven got excited from a male collegue at work, by the way nothing happend except a wet pant ;-) . I She sure doesen't want me surch for a man or to push it, I know when the moment and the wright guy is there it will happen. But whe both realize maybe that moment will never come.

But I'm agree with what Mac say's "Be careful what you wish for ... it has as many down sides as it does up sides. "

 

[italylovebbc]

Here the same, when we watch interracial cuckold movie she became very wet and she play also sometimes cam to cam with black but for real no , she doesnt

 

[James J]

If she isn't into it, she isn't into it, forsing your fantasy on her will not end well

 

[D & A Play]

If she isn't into it, she isn't into it, forsing your fantasy on her will not end well

Well said James.
I’m in the same boat as a few of you fellas, but I just aspire to get her to at least share in the fantasy.
Don’t know if my ego could handle the real deal or not, but it’s sure fun to fantasize!

 

[HWMILF]

Start with removing stress from her life. Stress is a sex killer for us females.
Second, get a TV for the bedroom... watch porn SHE likes and have the type of sex SHE likes.
Once her sexdrive is on top you can start making suggestions and she will be more into new crazy ideas.

Also, shower, brush your teeth and smell good. Always.

 

[jamesriske]

Start with something small. Like a massage and hand job. See how it goes.

Then have her kiss the guys cock and suck it a little.

Work her up to full on sex slowly, see how it all goes and talk about your feelings.

Around about the 10th time, she'll be full on fucking and you'll all enjoy it.

Worked for me.