So posted a question asking what a cuck or hotwife got off on,I'm finding myself wanting get into this lifestyle however I don't know how to bring it up to my girlfriend, plus how would I get her into black men? To my knowledge she has a preference for white men, I've recently watched some asian/black porn and its only made me want to she my asian girlfriend take some BBC more
I was married to a filipina for 16 years and have many friends in PI. I have also been to several other asian countries and have . . . enjoyed. I have talked with many of them about black guys. Most of them are from very rural areas and provinces. They were not raised in the cities and only one is a retired bar girl.
Every one of them expressed fear, for the most part.
1. Fear of the size rumors - There's no way it can possibly fit. Even if it does it will hurt like hell.
2. Fear of the treatment rumors - All of them have military bases in their countries and all of them heard rumors of how black guys treat their women and that they are "playas" and will dump them the first time they see a pretty new thing. They hear rumors of abuse, mis-treatment, and cheating. All of them were raised with family values and want a husband, so these rumors turn them off.
3. Fear of being ostracized - Interracial dating/marriage is looked down upon very strongly in their culture. Women who date interracially take a HUGE chance, even if it is with a white guy (although there is much less of a stigma associated with dating a white guy). Their community ostracizes them, even to the point of shunning. If there are bi-racial children involved, in Asia, they are generally treated with the same respect as toe jam. It is an extremely hard life for a biracial (black and asian) baby living over there.
4. Fear of the effect on the marriage - Even with hubby's permission, who is to say he will not get cold feet and then hold it against her? A good marriage goes downhill, ending in divorce. Divorce also has an ostracization effect in many asian countries.
I am not saying number 1 and 2 are the right way to go, but perception is 9/10ths of reality. It is not fair (every one is an individual and should be treated that way), but unfortunately, in this world, we have become accustomed to lumping people into groups, based on stupid divisions. If you are raised in that kind of culture, there would be no desire to try BBC or, at the very least, you would suppress that desire. And number 3 definitely is not right, but it is reality.
I am telling you all of this as a way of telling you that no matter how much you want your gf to try this, you are going against the way she was brought up (if she was brought up over there) and she may very well be offended that you want her to try it. And you should not be surprised if she never does it.
Generally, the asian women (raised over there) who are willing to try it were either raised in big cities (more of a cultural mix, less to fear about being ostracized) or they were bar girls.
There are several threads on these forums about how to get your girl to try bbc. Just do a search. Just be aware that it may not happen and if you push, you may lose her.
