How to get my Asian girlfriend into this life style?

Discussion in 'Cuckold Forum' started by Greg roberts, Nov 16, 2015.

  1. Greg roberts

    Greg roberts New Member

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    So posted a question asking what a cuck or hotwife got off on,I'm finding myself wanting get into this lifestyle however I don't know how to bring it up to my girlfriend, plus how would I get her into black men? To my knowledge she has a preference for white men, I've recently watched some asian/black porn and its only made me want to she my asian girlfriend take some BBC more
     
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  2. falcondfw69

    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I was married to a filipina for 16 years and have many friends in PI. I have also been to several other asian countries and have . . . enjoyed. I have talked with many of them about black guys. Most of them are from very rural areas and provinces. They were not raised in the cities and only one is a retired bar girl.

    Every one of them expressed fear, for the most part.
    1. Fear of the size rumors - There's no way it can possibly fit. Even if it does it will hurt like hell.
    2. Fear of the treatment rumors - All of them have military bases in their countries and all of them heard rumors of how black guys treat their women and that they are "playas" and will dump them the first time they see a pretty new thing. They hear rumors of abuse, mis-treatment, and cheating. All of them were raised with family values and want a husband, so these rumors turn them off.
    3. Fear of being ostracized - Interracial dating/marriage is looked down upon very strongly in their culture. Women who date interracially take a HUGE chance, even if it is with a white guy (although there is much less of a stigma associated with dating a white guy). Their community ostracizes them, even to the point of shunning. If there are bi-racial children involved, in Asia, they are generally treated with the same respect as toe jam. It is an extremely hard life for a biracial (black and asian) baby living over there.
    4. Fear of the effect on the marriage - Even with hubby's permission, who is to say he will not get cold feet and then hold it against her? A good marriage goes downhill, ending in divorce. Divorce also has an ostracization effect in many asian countries.
    I am not saying number 1 and 2 are the right way to go, but perception is 9/10ths of reality. It is not fair (every one is an individual and should be treated that way), but unfortunately, in this world, we have become accustomed to lumping people into groups, based on stupid divisions. If you are raised in that kind of culture, there would be no desire to try BBC or, at the very least, you would suppress that desire. And number 3 definitely is not right, but it is reality.
    I am telling you all of this as a way of telling you that no matter how much you want your gf to try this, you are going against the way she was brought up (if she was brought up over there) and she may very well be offended that you want her to try it. And you should not be surprised if she never does it.
    Generally, the asian women (raised over there) who are willing to try it were either raised in big cities (more of a cultural mix, less to fear about being ostracized) or they were bar girls.
    There are several threads on these forums about how to get your girl to try bbc. Just do a search. Just be aware that it may not happen and if you push, you may lose her.
     
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  3. Greg roberts

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    Thing is my girlfriend is american born and has lived in america her whole life,but nonetheless thank you
     
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    falcondfw69 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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  5. TexasCuck214

    TexasCuck214 Active Member

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    what state are you in? I talk with some asian girls about BBC. One thing in their culture, I have heard that they don't like the "fact" that black men are known to beat their women. My busty asian friend in Cali told me about this.
     
  6. calguy

    calguy Active Member Gold Member

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    Who's ur busty Asian friend?
     
  7. Greg roberts

    Greg roberts New Member

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  8. TexasCuck214

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    she is not into black guys.
     
  9. calguy

    calguy Active Member Gold Member

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    Is she in SoCal? I can convince her
     
  10. mikej669

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    Mine is American born and raised too, but she did it - and loves it. Just had her first recently and wants more, bigger, harder, longer.
    Started with me telling her how hot she looked, then we'd look at porn together and end up on black-on-asian stuff. I'd comment on how it would look hot to see her with something that big (never mentioned the black thing at first). I'd usually play with her during this, or make sure that this was the last video on before she came. After a while, The videos became mostly black.
    Then when we'd fuck or play I would mention to her how hot I thought she'd look, and finally one day just added it would be hotter if it was with a black guy. At first she didn't quite know what to think and said that it would be fine either way if the guy had a huge cock (black or white). Eventually though, I think it just struck her as she became more aware of the whole black fucking stereotype that it is amazing.
    It took us almost 3 years to actually meet the first person. We got blown off so many times, and she almost "settled" for less than she wanted a few times as well. Her first time was good - not necessarily great. The guy didn't exactly show up looking like anything special. He met us at a bar in a cheap soccer shirt and flip flops (even though this was planned in advance), and his facial photo taking seemed to gather his "best angles". But he was re ripped and to his credit he was all about her and they fucked for almost 4 hours before he came inside her. His cock would be considered big I guess, but it was smaller than mine. Since my wife is used to taking a big cock already (not bragging just stating), she was hoping for something 10+.
    We were totally cool after, and even though we may never get together with that guy again - she does want more!
    Hit me up if you want to know more or have any other questions
     
  11. Greg roberts

    Greg roberts New Member

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    A little update,I had never brought it up to my girlfriend and I had put it off my mind until a few days ago when we were at a bar and it was almost empty getting ready to close within when a really tall black man walked in the bar and stood next to my girlfriend and the height difference was a turn on, I may bring this up to her tomorrow either way I plan to update
     
  12. Greg roberts807

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    Update I had to make a new account lost access to the other one

    I put wanting my gf to be a "hotwife" on the back burner but lately its been on my mind, so I may bring it up to her she has been more open sexually lately watching porn more frequently hell we just watched Mandingo fuck Morgan Lee last night.

    But I did have a question if she is open to being a hotwife should I start her off with white bulls/studs?