Personally enjoy the dynamic of experiencing the reversal or transition or shift of control in scenarios and the raft of rapidly changing emotions that tends to generate . For example The initial control being totally with my husband and I and the gradual erosion of that control firstly from him and then from me.Most women want a confident in-charge male. Many want controlled completely.
Society has taught them to reject it which is against their instincts.
BBC ignores the social stigma by allowing Whote women an outlet through their fetish.
Psychologically and emotionally, all women want to be dominated.
Not by every man and not all the time but a core need is the need to be "taken" by a strong, dominant male.
Society has taught them that this is toxic male behavior so they resist while desiring it.
Once they experience it, they become the sensual, sexual beings they were intended to be.
The attraction of IR porn and BBC make the transition much simpler.

Such a good little slut!!I am submissive to strong willed black men and also once served a Black Queen for two years.
I don't think that applies to black men. Can't think of a black man being a sub to a white woman. That's why we may appreciate them more, among other things...In my very personal opinion, few women have a submissive mentality, and exceptionally, they are even aware of it. Conversely, the majority of women want to be dominant over their partners: this opinion of mine is not at all original, as it was also expressed by Geoffrey Chaucer, the famous author of the Canterbury Tales.
I want to be your masterSub here.
Bbc domSub here.