Also the experienced bull should have a long heart to heart with the couple to see what their interests ( fetishes) are and go from there. Pushing their limits to make their experience greater. Breaking the sexual bond of the couple is of utmost importance. Being the only man in the sexual relationship is paramount. The wife should come to this conclusion in her own and have “the talk” with her husband to let him know that while she loves her husband, her boyfriend’s sexual needs come first. And she should keep the husband’s mind fully included in what is happening. Don’t leave him out or be secretive. This will make it all that much better