I have been in a relationship for a few years and she is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. I have always had a fantasy of watching her with a hung black guy but have never even considered bringing it up .... I want to know if its possible to bring this idea up without her losing respect for me. We have great sex .... I'd love to hear from other couples or bulls or cucks who have experience in this
There's that old saying ...
"sometimes its best to let sleeping dogs lie"! It sounds like your relationship is running smoothly ... so, perhaps, is the sex with her possibly getting a bit boring or repetitious, maybe for you? Are you sure YOU could handle watching or knowing another man was screwing your GF, particularly if your GF started sexually responding in ways you'd never seen her respond when YOU make love to her? Are you
really sure? Have you ever shared her with ANY other man before? Is your relationship strong enough that the 2 of you can have open discussions about sensitive topics like sex? Have you ever asked her for suggestions on how you could improve the sex the 2 of you have?
Why not
"go fishing" a bit before asking her that BIG question that you think might offend her. Why not suggest the 2 of you taking the opportunity to share sexual fantasies with each other, that way, you may discover she desires something close to what you desire. Also, by using the excuse of sharing fantasies, it gives you the ability to gracefully back out if you see she isn't responding positively to your fantasy. Bring up the fact that you desire to see her sexually satisfied like she has
never been sexually satisfied before ... possibly suggest having a 3-some (MMF) with you, her, and another man of HER choice, with a constant emphasis on the goal of helping her reach a new sexual HIGH. She's got to see this as something that you want for HER, not for yourself ... seriously!
Our personal favorite are 3-somes (both MMF & FFM), and I can honestly say that the sex my wife & I have weeks after having a 3-some are something close to awesome. I know its all in my head, but after seeing her fuck another man, for some reason her pussy just feels different for a while ... not sure why! But it seems too!
But, the key thing is that you don't want her to think that you are losing interest/respect in her, and that's exactly what can happen if you're not somewhat tactful & graceful with your approach. Its kind of safe to always approach these types of topics with "your hat in your hand" ... sort of a respectful type of approach. Good luck ... hope you get some good suggestions here ... Mac