How do you view your husband or significant other now that you had BBC?

[benmb]

It has really opened my eyes! I no longer find him sexually attractive and am looking for a new more dominant partner for a better relationship one more in line with my new lifestyle and appetites.

Have youfound a new partner yet?

 

[lawsonsparks]

Having now been owned by my older black bull for several months , I have found myself feeling closer to hub than ever . I admire his courage in admitting that he just can't satisfy me . He is my partner in all things but NOT where sex is concerned . He has easily moulded into the cuck that both my bull and I wanted .
We very nearly gave up looking for a bull as there just aren't that many around but I'm glad we didn't .
I view hubby as a clever , strong person . However , when my lover is with us I see him as an object of humiliation and he loves it .

 

[Patricia & Max]

I have to admit, as a hotwife, I'm a bit shocked by some of the comments here. I'm not having sex with other man to humiliate my husband.
This story have start some month ago, he asked me if I would say yes to sex with an other man.
My husband's fantasy is to watch me being fucked by other man. As a semi-professional photographer he enjoys taking photos of me with other man as well as with himself. I think the fact that the man is a black man enhance is fantasy, with the contrast and the taboo.
I really enjoy that situation, and I have had some great sex moments. Certainly the fact to being fuck by a stranger while your husband is watching is a powerful experience. I also found it really exciting The fact to play the "pornstar" for him, respecting his willing, having the cock in my mouth with the facial expression he wants for the photo.
But it's never about humiliating him, or whatever. He is the man I love, the man I love to have sex with. Cuckolding is just a fantasy we have from time to time

 

[Hansjensen]

Is he still the man you fell in love with or has the relationship changed? Honestly, is he a man or a complete sisssy? Do you want to keep him this way?

Fortunately my wife loves me even more now that she has a black boyfriend and the biracial kid that she strongly desired.

I am glad that she often tells me how much she loves me and what a good husband I am. She thinks that I am brave because I let another male have sex with her.

 

[Tylkayl]

the same.

 

[txscplbc]

I love my husband and I let him fuck me as much as he wants but his little dick doesn't do it for me..I've never had a orgasm while he was fucking me.He let's me fuck bbc with are without him..

 

[Hansjensen]

View attachment 1266576 I love my husband and I let him fuck me as much as he wants but his little dick doesn't do it for me..I've never had a orgasm while he was fucking me.He let's me fuck bbc with are without him..

Great post. Nice to see how much you love each other And fantastic picture!

 

[pienman]

I'll try to keep this as short as possible.

My husband and I are not doing anything extreme. He has never watched me with a lover. He has never cleaned up (because I play safe and there is never anything to clean up). He is not in chastity and, if he wanted to be with another woman, I'd grant him the same freedom to play as he has given me. We are not "black-owned", nor is that something that we would ever go for.

If he were to ever watch me, one thing that would be stated very clearly from the start is that my husband is to be treated with respect. One word of disrespect to either of us, and we'd be out that door so fast it would make his head spin.

I was raised very conservatively, and my husband was the first guy I slept with (although we didn't wait until we were married). After 20 years together, for better and for worse, he is my life partner and the most important man in my life. That is the first thing any other man needs to realize and accept. The funny thing is, after having explored a bit of my "wild side", the sex with my husband gets even better, as I gain something from each experience that I can share with him to spice up our own intimacy.

So to get to the actual crux of your question: yes, I still love him and respect him as much , if not more. How could I not, since he has given me the precious gift of his blessing to explore my full sexuality the way I am able to?

I love your comment because it shows respect for the me you hated goes with!

 

[tstud]

View attachment 1266576 I love my husband and I let him fuck me as much as he wants but his little dick doesn't do it for me..I've never had a orgasm while he was fucking me.He let's me fuck bbc with are without him..

First" your bull now! How much cock U think you handle deep fuckin pounding u will have multiple orgasms every session.

 

[whitecuckyboy]

I will answer this question from the male perspective. My wife has seen me get pissed on by Black women while naked, she has seen me get fucked in the ass by Black men while dressed as a French maid and she has seen me deep throat Black cocks while dressed as a school girl. She has also felt my tongue in her asshole, lapping up Afro sperm.

I think her view of my masculinity may have changed somewhat!

 

[curiouswhiteone]

I'll try to keep this as short as possible.

My husband and I are not doing anything extreme. He has never watched me with a lover. He has never cleaned up (because I play safe and there is never anything to clean up). He is not in chastity and, if he wanted to be with another woman, I'd grant him the same freedom to play as he has given me. We are not "black-owned", nor is that something that we would ever go for.

If he were to ever watch me, one thing that would be stated very clearly from the start is that my husband is to be treated with respect. One word of disrespect to either of us, and we'd be out that door so fast it would make his head spin.

I was raised very conservatively, and my husband was the first guy I slept with (although we didn't wait until we were married). After 20 years together, for better and for worse, he is my life partner and the most important man in my life. That is the first thing any other man needs to realize and accept. The funny thing is, after having explored a bit of my "wild side", the sex with my husband gets even better, as I gain something from each experience that I can share with him to spice up our own intimacy.

So to get to the actual crux of your question: yes, I still love him and respect him as much , if not more. How could I not, since he has given me the precious gift of his blessing to explore my full sexuality the way I am able to?

Excellent! See? Common sense, responsibility & fun can coexist.

 

[bound2bmine]

I know it changed my marriage. It got to the point she told me "I can't imagine you touching me anymore" Here is my story.
https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...or-how-i-lost-my-wife-to-the-lifestyle.94459/

 

[Hansjensen]

I know it changed my marriage. It got to the point she told me "I can't imagine you touching me anymore" Here is my story.
https://www.blacktowhite.net/thread...or-how-i-lost-my-wife-to-the-lifestyle.94459/

Someone wrote:

"yes, I still love him and respect him as much , if not more. How could I not, since he has given me the precious gift of his blessing to explore my full sexuality the way I am able to?"

My wife agrees. We love each other even more. Cuckolding has enhanced our relationship.

 

[Jb8]

We really want to try and find someone local , but are afraid of this. My husband and I have roll played but that's about it, how do you get comfortable enough to bring someone in?

 

[Zoro182]

A lot of these answer go to the heart of why people like me, who fantasize about it, won't jump. My relationship with my wife is worth much more than an exciting evening. And it seems to be the rare event where that is maintained

 

[irinne]

Geesh, some harsh stuff, you'd think most answers would be, "How couldn't I still love him, he's my best friend, he lets me enjoy the best of both worlds!"

 

[Hansjensen]

A lot of these answer go to the heart of why people like me, who fantasize about it, won't jump. My relationship with my wife is worth much more than an exciting evening. And it seems to be the rare event where that is maintained

It has definitely enhanced our relationship that my wife has a black boyfriend. It's a win win situation!

 

[Hansjensen]

Geesh, some harsh stuff, you'd think most answers would be, "How couldn't I still love him, he's my best friend, he lets me enjoy the best of both worlds!"

Well, my wife uses exactly the words that you mention: "enjoy the best of both worlds!" She has terrific sex with her black lover and she loves me as her caring and loving husband.

 

[malizia2000]

i love him. this doesn't mean i'm blind. there are men who are better in bed than him. he knows too. i think he is great because he let me have the best of both world: love and sex.

 

[mw29]

Beginning down this road and trying to open up my wife to the idea of black cock, I have noticed that many couples who enter into cuckolding lifestyle white wife with black men ultimately see their relationship evolve to the point that the white wife chooses to cut her husband off sexually and reserve access only for Black cock. I am wondering after the decision to deny your husband intercourse anymore, how do you maintain a sense of connection with your hubby to keep your relationship strong? Are the black men made fully aware of your situation?