How do you select?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by ATRUBLKGENT, Apr 11, 2016.

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Which is ideal for the B2W lifestyle?

  1. Looks (cock, skin tone)

    56.0%
  2. Personality (laid back, dominant)

    12.0%
  3. Local distance?

    12.0%
  4. Intelligence (good conversation)

    20.0%
  1. ATRUBLKGENT

    ATRUBLKGENT New Member

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    As a relatively new member of B2W, I notice countless posts about the opportunity between members to talk, meet, and perhaps engage in consensual activities.

    However, I am very selective and cautious about who I decide to meet. Let's face it, quality is always better than quantity.

    What do you consider are critically important factors to finally take it from online to real life?

    1. Close distance?
    2. Personality?
    3. Looks/cock size?
    4. Intelligence?

    Share your thoughts?

    Thanks
    BlkGent
     
  2. queenmature

    queenmature Well-Known Member

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    Intelligence and personality, good conversation, looks.
     
  3. lkg4fun

    lkg4fun Moderator Staff Member Gold Member Real Person

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    Absolutely agree with this!
     
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  4. ATRUBLKGENT

    ATRUBLKGENT New Member

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    Appreciate the candor and honesty
     
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  5. lkg4fun

    lkg4fun Moderator Staff Member Gold Member Real Person

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    You are welcome. And I also agree with you 100% that quality is much better than quantity.
     
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  6. Liljspa32

    Liljspa32 Member

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    Of course you would like all of those, but in this lifestyle you don't get all of those.. Good convo is a big deal to me, so that's number one to me..
     
  7. Sunshine girl

    Sunshine girl Active Member

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    All of it. Safety. Discretion. A gentleman. I have to connect. I have never been one for a one night stand. I have to know that character of the person. They have to be clean...and I don't just mean std free. The only dirty part I want is a dirty mind. I would have to have some continuing conversation or contact with someone for a while before I'd ever agree to meet in person. I'm new here, too
     
  8. Sunshine girl

    Sunshine girl Active Member

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    And actually, distance is a good thing. I'm married. I want it now and then. I don't need someone getting attached or
    complicating my world. I sometimes travel for business ;)
     
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  9. Sunshine girl

    Sunshine girl Active Member

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    But from the looks of it? You're having a hell of a lot more fun than I am :)
     
  10. Sunshine girl

    Sunshine girl Active Member

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    I'm completely jealous and wish I had that. I haven't had any in 3 months.
     
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  11. Sunshine girl

    Sunshine girl Active Member

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    Well. I kinda do. There's that whole husband thing that gets in the way LOL. But that's a whole other Oprah episode lol
     
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  12. Sunshine girl

    Sunshine girl Active Member

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    (Bows to the queen lol). I'm not there yet.
     
  13. ATRUBLKGENT

    ATRUBLKGENT New Member

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    Clearly that is another topic. So glad we are gaining different perspectives
     
  14. hotwifecouple78

    hotwifecouple78 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I would agree with those traits too.
     
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  15. laphanatic

    laphanatic Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You'll get a date based on looks, cock size, profile and initial email but this only get you cocktails, personality will close the deal.
     
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  16. hotwifecouple78

    hotwifecouple78 Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Yes, personality of a man is critical and some men do not seem to understand that.
     
  17. Larry48

    Larry48 Member

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    I like this thread...and just adding my 2 cents I would say conversation and distance. But most important conversation because that shows your personality which can lead to the fun.
     
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  18. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    I currently belong to a group, my bed partners are either members of the group I know or someone that refers a woman to me. Since I have been in the group I have never been disappointed by a referral.

    The biggest factor for me is a good sense of humor. I have generally found that women that laugh easily usually fuck enthusiastically.