How do you know if she’s for real??

Hey all. New here. Recently got my wife a black dildo. She was totally against it at first but then warmed up to it. Now she even says things like “I love that black cock” “I’m a black cock slut” she loves sucking it and fucking it. She still says my cock is better but she likes to have fun with it. She’s even taken some pics of her sucking it. No porn yet, not sure what the next step should be.
 
Hey all. New here. Recently got my wife a black dildo. She was totally against it at first but then warmed up to it. Now she even says things like “I love that black cock” “I’m a black cock slut” she loves sucking it and fucking it. She still says my cock is better but she likes to have fun with it. She’s even taken some pics of her sucking it. No porn yet, not sure what the next step should be.
I've barely progressed a little further (IR porn only). All I can say is that there's no way to tell until you actually get her to say it when you two aren't having sex or are sexually aroused in a frenzy. It needs to be clear conscious talking. I've decided to use the dirty BBC talk in bed and to use the bbc dildo periodically to get her closer to telling me. Basically she may tell me or she might never do it. Pillow talk is just pillow talk until proven otherwise. Get that IR porn going though. Good luck.
 
I've barely progressed a little further (IR porn only). All I can say is that there's no way to tell until you actually get her to say it when you two aren't having sex or are sexually aroused in a frenzy. It needs to be clear conscious talking. I've decided to use the dirty BBC talk in bed and to use the bbc dildo periodically to get her closer to telling me. Basically she may tell me or she might never do it. Pillow talk is just pillow talk until proven otherwise. Get that IR porn going though. Good luck.


Hey thanks for the response! Makes sense. I’ll get the porn going and I hear ya on the pillow talk thing. The first time we talked about certain toys and situations it was in a sexual frenzy and when I purchased certain toys she almost made me feel stupid because certain things were said in the “heat of the moment” but we are back on track and now for the porn. Good luck to you as well!
 
It will come. We've been there. Here is where we are now x happy to offer ongoing advice

Oh wow! So hot!! That’s awesome and I’ll take ya up on that ongoing advice too! Gonna see if I can break out the BBC dildo and play a little tonight. Maybe get her to talk dirty a little more and she how far she goes. I’m always nervous about saying the wrong thing or asking her to say something and she then having her put the breaks on. In the heat of the moment she’ll damn near say anything. I was surprised though one time when she sent me pics of her sucking the BBC when I work.
 
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Oh wow! So hot!! That’s awesome and I’ll take ya up on that ongoing advice too! Gonna see if I can break out the BBC dildo and play a little tonight. Maybe get her to talk dirty a little more and she how far she goes. I’m always nervous about saying the wrong thing or asking her to say something and she then having her put the breaks on. In the heat of the moment she’ll damn near say anything. I was surprised though one time when she sent me pics of her sucking the BBC when I work. View attachment 1757482View attachment 1757483View attachment 1757484
That's a great sign if she sent you those out of her own will. She looks good with BBC in her mouth. You just might be luckier than I am lol.
 
Haha thanks! I’m not so sure because then she will totally bypass the fact she sent them or just play it off like it was nothing. I dunno what to think lol. I’ll just roll with it.
Maybe she feels guilty and doesn't fully understand that you find it extremely hot and that jealousy isn't an issue.
 
Maybe she feels guilty and doesn't fully understand that you find it extremely hot and that jealousy isn't an issue.

I mak sure to tell her all the time how hot it is and sexy she is. I always while she’s using it either sucking it or fucking it. I always tell her how it’s such a turn on and she’s so fucken hot. She really gets into it. Maybe she’s still a little unsure? It’s only been about a month with the one toy. She’s really surprised me with a lot of things lately however. She’s pretty much a freak and I had no idea. She likes for me spit on her while she’s sucking me off or spit on her ass while I’m behind her. This is all a shock to me. We’ve been married for 8 years and I’m just finding all this and more out.
 
I mak sure to tell her all the time how hot it is and sexy she is. I always while she’s using it either sucking it or fucking it. I always tell her how it’s such a turn on and she’s so fucken hot. She really gets into it. Maybe she’s still a little unsure? It’s only been about a month with the one toy. She’s really surprised me with a lot of things lately however. She’s pretty much a freak and I had no idea. She likes for me spit on her while she’s sucking me off or spit on her ass while I’m behind her. This is all a shock to me. We’ve been married for 8 years and I’m just finding all this and more out.
Then progress IS being made. Keep probing but slowly.
 
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