How do you conduct a first public meeting with a Bull or Couple?

[JJSMITHY54321]

How do you conduct a first public meeting with a Bull or Couple? We recently had two public meetings with Prospective Bulls,
The question is ...How do you conduct yours? We ask because what we like to do is meet at a Park or Parking lot open area.
We find "Going to have a *******" or a place surrounded by people takes away privacy as far as talking about personal sex things.
Also walking freely gives a good gauge of seeing each other openly.

For the first 2 Bulls, we search thru regular dating sites, looking for black guys interested in a "friends with benefits" relationship.
After finding a couple guys, my wife connects via text. Based on the vibe, she would arrange a coffee or early evening date. Again, based on how the date is going she would arrange a 2nd date to go clubbing &/or dinner.
On the 2nd date, when they both know how the date will end, she explains our Stag/Vixen relationship. By then, she would know if he is open to this lifestyle, i.e. friends with benefits and no possibility of romantic feelings.
So for us, it's less transactional and more transitional.

 

[anccuck]

For us it started as a group text, getting to know interests in interracial cuckolding. As we are younger we often do a lot more through text before.

Followed by eventually meeting and discussing the interracial cuckolding relationship we were interested in. Which regardless how it goes the plan is to sleep on it and see how we feel before inviting the bull to cuck..

This is what we did our first time, it seemed to work out.

 

[scandinavcpl]

You really have thought this through.

For us, it was necessary from the start to think it through carefully, to talk about it and fantasize about it for a long time, so that the wife would be curious enough, open to it and feel safe enough.
And it took us several years before we had the chance to experience the first adventure.
To everyone's delight, it was very successful and we have continued the lifestyle with great joy.
Over time, thanks to all successful experiences, with increased experience, it has sometimes happened, on some rare special occasion, that the wife has felt great desire and dared to be more spontaneous, which has also resulted in one or two successful and satisfying experiences.
But the normal thing for us is still to be cautious and think it through carefully, before we start the next adventure

 

[Dblinsey]

What works for us is simple.

We find prospects on an adult dating site. I'll send an introductory note and if he is interested, we'll chat on the site a few times.

Then, if he sounds interesting, we'll text and eventually call. If things are progressing well, we set up a meeting at a local bar and grill. Place with lots of folks around, but still noisy enough to hide what we're discussing. This meeting is purely social. It's understood from the start that nothing will occur immediately after this meeting.

After this initial meeting, if I'm still interested, will discuss with hubby. If he found him acceptable, then I text him right away, schedule a second meeting and suggesting that this one will go further.

It seems to work for us.

 

[abstractart100]

For the first 2 Bulls, we search thru regular dating sites, looking for black guys interested in a "friends with benefits" relationship.
After finding a couple guys, my wife connects via text. Based on the vibe, she would arrange a coffee or early evening date. Again, based on how the date is going she would arrange a 2nd date to go clubbing &/or dinner.
On the 2nd date, when they both know how the date will end, she explains our Stag/Vixen relationship. By then, she would know if he is open to this lifestyle, i.e. friends with benefits and no possibility of romantic feelings.
So for us, it's less transactional and more transitional.

Thanks for the great advice and guidance