Any thoughts gratefully accepted.
Paul, welcome to b2w ... if you're hoping for some serious suggestions/responses, it would help if you gave the forum members some background info on you, your wife, and what sexual activities the 2 of you have brought into your marriage thus far. For example ...
#1
...How long have the 2 of you been together and how frequently or infrequently are you having sex these days?
#2
...Does she like any aspects of porn, sexual aids like vibrators, etc?
#3
...Has she had sex with any other men since marrying you?
#4
...What is her feelings toward black men?
#5
...Does she initiate sex?
#6
...Will she masturbate in front of you?
#7
...Have the 2 of you ever talked about having 3-somes involving other men?
...If you're masturbating a lot, its almost a given that its affecting your sexual relationship with her, and if she's an outgoing, sexual woman, she's noticed and probably as frustrated as you.
...One sign of a good, stable marriage is the
ability to communicate about issues/topics of interest/concern. Your sharing her with other men will probably make no sense to her if the 2 of you have never involved other people in the past. Plus, she'll assume if you're wishing to share her, then you're probably desiring to be with other females as well.
...Also, if the 2 of you have remained monogamous throughout your marriage thus far, you might want to ease into this activity rather than jump right in ... it WILL have an impact on your marriage and how each of you look at each other afterward ... and its not always a bed of roses. The thrill of cuckolding for men is usually the power pill of adrenaline (jealousy, envy, excitement, etc) that one gets when he sees his bride take her first cock outside your marriage. So, as well as you might think you'll enjoy it ... that's not necessarily the case, and once done, its irreversible. Involving others in your marriage sex can work, and it can elevate it back to the stage it was when you first had sex, but, that's not always the case, thus you have to be cautious and have good communications with each other.
...But, do take a few minutes to fill out your profile.
...Good luck