Hi, my gf and I, both 22 have slowly gotten into dirty talking about cucking and her fucking other guys like my friends but i don’t know how to take it to the next step. Should I just wait and let it take course or is there something i can do that ofc won’t break any boundaries but promote her into doing more stuff realistically. I told her early into our relationship worried that she will judge and leave me but she was open and didn’t judge me. Ofc it took time for her to get to know what it is and what it is about but now we have very passionate dirty talk about her fucking other guys.
How do i get my gf to take it further from dirty talk?
- Thread starter jakebotta
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You don't make her do anything. You have a mature and clear conversation to learn if she is interested in the lifestyle. If she consents to it, then you both can discuss what is a comfortable next step to take/do research. forsing her never ends well for anyone.
Thank you sm, i thought that would have been the better approach but i’m new to this whole thing
This. A lot of people don't consider this. Some people are either all fantasy without thinking of the bad, vice versa. You gotta look at both sides always in order to create realistic outcomes.
Do you have any hot black friends you could have him stop by to meet your wife/girlfriend and he can fuck her if he could get her horny.
It would help if female friends that fuck bbc
justanotherd
Male
It’s a good start, you might just have to talk to her very candidly and gauge her reaction
I told my wife that even though this fantasy has been my absolute top of the mountain sexual desire, if I thought she might catch feelings for the other guy I would never want to pursue this kink in real life.
Get her interested cuckolding you, would you mine being submissive?
Slow is smooth, smooth is fast. What toys do yall use in the bedroom right now?
Well we use all sorts, we started of using some vibrators and got more to try them out. After a while when i told her about my kink, i bought a dildo which we have used as well. She often talks to me and describes scenes in which she fucks some other guy or people we know. We have also tried anal buttplug but she likes it more when it’s me playing with her ass.
i’m not into the humiliation part but i’d like to watch and join knowing that i’m going to show her that i’m better.
I know some but they in relashonship so that’s not possible
well she said that she would like to me to watch if we ever did do it knowing that i would want to fuck her and show her that i’m better
You haven’t talked to her. That’s obvious. You know that she will say no and this will be over. That’s why you’re seeking advice on how to manipulate her
I understand how it may look like that, but maybe i wasn’t detailed enough but we are very communicative, we have talked about boundaries and her about her thoughts, even now we still discuss how we feel about it so we know where we are at on a regular basis. As I am relatively new to this I want to know from people who are experience on how they worked on journey and give advice on it. We both specifically expressed that we are in no rush to commit or go further from just discussion as we both view our relationship as a long term relashonship, so there is no rush to commit this journey. She has also expressed her own independent interest. Hopefully this can give some insight into more.
You’re talking to her in round about ways avoiding the actual goal. People understand what manipulation is. If you’re not talking directly about this then you’re manipulating. You literally said “Should I just wait and let it take course or is there something i can do that ofc won’t break any boundaries but promote her into doing more stuff”
That’s horrible
We have serious advice then we have this crap. Geez.
Half the battle is weeding out the guys who are obsessed with their particular kink and want all discussions and advice to center on that kink even to the most extreme degrees, regardless of how the poster feels. I think they believe that person may throw them a bone that either feeds their kink or at least doesn’t crush it (like hitting the pervert lottery) or they hope continuing to push their particular kink/fetish they may talk some one into their flavor of this stuff.
Guys like this are why I love the mute button.
