How did you control the anxiety of meeting your first bull to let things continue?

[JamHasJas]

I had asked my wife this question,,, her response


My thing was the first time was nerve racking because you were the only person that had seen me naked for the last 30 years. After the first it gets easier. Plus all of them helped ease the anxiety with how nice and complementary they are. I will think about it more but Reggie is waiting for a walk

Now my side, I started chatting with a guy from one the sites, let him know what we had going on, that we were first timers. And she was looking to fulfill her BBC curiosity. We had talked about a date to meet. Well on the way, she started to freak out and was like,, I can't do it, I can't do it, so of course, it didn't happen.

We went home talked about, talked to her date and we rescheduled. Like some the other ladies stories, had a few drinks and headed over. Sat on chatted for a few, they started to get touchy Feely and I wasn't exactly sure what to think but it was exciting to watch.

 

[oilysteel]

I had asked my wife this question,,, her response


My thing was the first time was nerve racking because you were the only person that had seen me naked for the last 30 years. After the first it gets easier. Plus all of them helped ease the anxiety with how nice and complementary they are. I will think about it more but Reggie is waiting for a walk

Now my side, I started chatting with a guy from one the sites, let him know what we had going on, that we were first timers. And she was looking to fulfill her BBC curiosity. We had talked about a date to meet. Well on the way, she started to freak out and was like,, I can't do it, I can't do it, so of course, it didn't happen.

We went home talked about, talked to her date and we rescheduled. Like some the other ladies stories, had a few drinks and headed over. Sat on chatted for a few, they started to get touchy Feely and I wasn't exactly sure what to think but it was exciting to watch.

thanks for your post. A very good feel of emotions. She is a very attractive lady

 

[AnnieS]

how about over coming some guilt issues .Or WTH did I just do thoughts? asking for a friend!

That’s definetly part of it. Some can overcome that and some are like I am good. Right?

 

[nancyask]

drinks on the couch i let them alone and get the wine just peek in

 

[Joetana712]

That’s definetly part of it. Some can overcome that and some are like I am good. Right?

If you say so! We’re just happy you’re good and an exhibitionist! We always look forward to the next amazing visual erotica you produce! Click, click, Boom!!

 

[ready to share]

I had asked my wife this question,,, her response


My thing was the first time was nerve racking because you were the only person that had seen me naked for the last 30 years. After the first it gets easier. Plus all of them helped ease the anxiety with how nice and complementary they are. I will think about it more but Reggie is waiting for a walk

Now my side, I started chatting with a guy from one the sites, let him know what we had going on, that we were first timers. And she was looking to fulfill her BBC curiosity. We had talked about a date to meet. Well on the way, she started to freak out and was like,, I can't do it, I can't do it, so of course, it didn't happen.

We went home talked about, talked to her date and we rescheduled. Like some the other ladies stories, had a few drinks and headed over. Sat on chatted for a few, they started to get touchy Feely and I wasn't exactly sure what to think but it was exciting to watch.

I love to hear your first time was after 30 years.

 

[KarenE]

Just had a few drinks and jumped right in

yes that helped calm my nerves

 

[PattyinPhilly]

A lot of alcohol!

 

[jeff & christy]

Alcohol, horniness, and occasionally a little smoke.

 

[AnnieS]

It’s just my thought that if you need dr ugs or to be inebriated to do this, then maybe you need to rethink your plans?

 

[Joetana712]

It’s just my thought that if you need ******* or to be inebriated to do this, then maybe you need to rethink your plans?

a glass of wine or two is not gonna hurt the vibe! But if you are flat ******* AF and not really participating in the action...NOT GOOD!

 

[nancyask]

i wanted it i was horney all the time and my hubby was off with men

 

[DLoKuCcBb]

Thank you for your question because it’s been burning in my mind too. I want it to be a good experience for everyone. I was told not to go in too deep about it all and that was the best advice. I feel in every way not to go to deep into it and find the right person.

 

[kingandqueen]

A few drinks of the hard stuff

 

[olena]

how about over coming some guilt issues .Or WTH did I just do thoughts? asking for a friend!

For me it was actually this forum that helped a lot with the guilt feelings, maybe we are not normal (traditional) but were definitely not alone in enjoying this lifestyle. So long as you enjoy it, no one is hurt, it’s no one else’s business

 

[Loridan]

Our first time wasn't planned at all. Long boring story. Our fruend was at our place, we were having *******...one too many. He was leaving, wife gave him a kiss goodnight. It turned into a french kiss then he fucked her over tye back of the couch. Whole deal took maybe 4 minutes . We all looked at each other and he quickly left. Wife started to cry and apologized over and over. I didn't know what to think.
We ended up fucking twice that night.
We talked about next day, agreed it was a mistake. We had sex like crazy for a good month after.
About 6 months later we called him and invited him over. We were all pretty nervous but knew what was going on. About an hour of chit chat then they kissed and it started. Pretty much same deal, sex on the couch for a few then he left.
We'd call him once in a while. We just worked up to being relaxed and enjoying.
I'd say the first 10 times I only watched. They would have sex, he'd leave then we had sex after. It got to where they would go twice before he'd leave. Now we take turns with her. It's a fun time.

 

[Sannik12]

she had a few drinks and then it was on ..he took the lead and went at an ok pace

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

You’ve finally agreed to move your fantasy to reality. Share some tips of how you overcame the jitters of opening up and overcoming the anxiety of adding a bull into the mix. What tips can you share to help out new couples trying to overcome that first big bump?

Who's anxiety are we talking about? Because usually everything on these pages are directed to the man. No Offense but I'll probably find out soon you are a man. For our first time we vetted, We decided to make a session date once we were comfortable the man was a nice person. My Lady knew she wanted this but also knew I waited over 25 years to have this type of experience. On the way to the session in the car she said the smartest thing. She said do not build this up in your head. It will disappoint and it will be far too important and bigger than it should. It turned out she was right. The session (our first) wasn't that great but we knew we needed the experience. We knew we needed to jump in the pool and get over the anxiety and also the simplest things like being naked or kissing a stranger. --- We LOVE talking about the REALITY of cuckolding. Not the J.O. Material . That is why we started a "All female Telegram group" for ladies to share and support each other about this complicated fantasy/ -- It has been difficult getting it off the ground because this is a male driven fetish. For the Honest Real Females . My MissScarlett would love to talk and share with you if you are interested. A question like this is EXACTLY a great talking subject amongst real females.

 

[oilysteel]

she had a few drinks and then it was on ..he took the lead and went at an ok pace

I wish it would have been me. She's so perfectly curvy

 

[Pegramguy]

you prepare for it and dont make the meetting too heavy.

Meet somewhere public yet socially like a cafe or bar.

Invite your wife and make sure she dresses nice and sexy but not slutty.

He should be nice, courteous and friendly and flirty with the wife and yet focusing on disarming you by making you feel like you all could be friends and he might like that.. but dont forget he is doing this to make you more comfortable and open to inviting him over to hang out so he can get more direct access to your wife through you invitation and thinking he is interested in being your friend. He might be but that would develop later, he wants to get more access to your wife and make you all feel comfortable enough with him to at some poiint invite him over to your house which is where he wants to feel settled in and cozy and you all to feel the same about him being invited into your personal space, ideally by the husbands suggestion or offering it up as an option which the wife will see that if her husband trusts him enough to invite over then her husband must be ok for her to like him too and if he is coming to visit at their house, then it must mean it might be a possibility they start having sex at home rather than at a hotel, since he would know where they liive now and theyve gotten to know him just enough that her husband and her are both ok with him coming into their home rather than going to his place first..