How did you control the anxiety of meeting your first bull to let things continue?

[Feelitout]

You’ve finally agreed to move your fantasy to reality. Share some tips of how you overcame the jitters of opening up and overcoming the anxiety of adding a bull into the mix. What tips can you share to help out new couples trying to overcome that first big bump?

 

[Etnfalls]

Just had a few drinks and jumped right in

 

[inkedangels]

Drinks, but not too much, if you that anxious though you should not be doing it

 

[ChristyandJake]

Oo I was so anxious on our first date I was asking him to take me home and do another time

 

[Feelitout]

Just had a few drinks and jumped right in

Yes but for non drinkers there has to be some ways to relax.

 

[bbcforash]

Our first time happened so fast I didn't have time to think about it until it was over. Second time I was sweating my ass off because the guy was a couple hours late. Third time we did a face time with the guy a few times before we met and that made things MUCH easier. My wife drank wine every time to calm her nerves, she was really nervous for the second guy as well, him being so late made us think too much about things imo.

 

[Feelitout]

Oo I was so anxious on our first date I was asking him to take me home and do another time

The first needs to definitely have patience.

 

[ChristyandJake]

The first needs to definitely have patience.

Well I remember think about what if someone friend or coworker see me in the restaurant with

 

[Feelitout]

Well I remember think about what if someone friend or coworker see me in the restaurant with

We’ve been through that by just getting on a dating site and posting full face pics. After a few days though we weren’t so nervous. We’re in our 40’s so we decided who cares, it’s our life.

 

[oilysteel]

Drinks, but not too much, if you that anxious though you should not be doing it

good advice

 

[AnnieS]

You’ve finally agreed to move your fantasy to reality. Share some tips of how you overcame the jitters of opening up and overcoming the anxiety of adding a bull into the mix. What tips can you share to help out new couples trying to overcome that first big bump?

Meet them and do it and move past.

 

[Feelitout]

Meet them and do it and move past.

All couples need that one friend like Annie.

 

[justhavingfun]

tequila

 

[AnnieS]

All couples need that one friend like Annie.

The anxiety in the apprehension is the unknown once you just jump in and when you come out the other side, it’s no longer unknown, and then anxiety in that apprehension goes away. You know they say that the hardest part of jumping in the pool is the first few inches might be the same for getting dick too.Lol

 

[Feelitout]

The anxiety in the apprehension is the unknown once you just jump in and when you come out the other side, it’s no longer unknown, and then anxiety in that apprehension goes away. You know they say that the hardest part of jumping in the pool is the first few inches might be the same for getting dick too.Lol

Valid point. After getting past the first couple inches you’ll want your own pool.

 

[Joetana712]

The anxiety in the apprehension is the unknown once you just jump in and when you come out the other side, it’s no longer unknown, and then anxiety in that apprehension goes away. You know they say that the hardest part of jumping in the pool is the first few inches might be the same for getting dick too.Lol

how about over coming some guilt issues .Or WTH did I just do thoughts? asking for a friend!

 

[jeff & christy]

You jump off the edge when you decide its right, but with a parachute. Use your instincts and good judgement.

 

[SCBlknNsty]

The anxiety in the apprehension is the unknown once you just jump in and when you come out the other side, it’s no longer unknown, and then anxiety in that apprehension goes away. You know they say that the hardest part of jumping in the pool is the first few inches might be the same for getting dick too.Lol

It might be a violation of the Studly Codes but I have a degree of anxiety when meeting someone new...you never know if the pussy is consuming or just playing with the bait...

 

[CuckoldDoc]

Honestly to get over that first hump my wife wanted some x and other things and she fucked for hours life a porn star.

 

[canadiancuple]

Wife was wet and ready. My excitement caused me to prematurely ejaculate over and over.