How Conservative...?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Dsoul, Feb 29, 2012.

  1. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    A lot of hubbies out there often relate this to me whenever discussing about their wives: that a lot of their women have/had grown up in a conservative home where the thought of sex was often forbidden and considered evil. I know there's still a lot of such women even now with the advent of the internet and Facebook and various sexual sites.

    I'd like to know if there's any such women/men here who too were raised in such a manner and when they decided to rally against it.
     
  2. skeetB

    skeetB Member

    Hmmm...it wasn't considered evil...just not discussed...at all. I remember on my first date at 16 my mom told me..."if i let you go don't be a slut" I was like...WTF...its takin me quiet awhile to come put of my..."prude-ish-ness" and come to terms with the fact I like sex. I like it ALOT and want it quiet frequent.
     
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  3. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Do you feel surprised that such practises are still being meted by couples out there upon their kids in this day and age?
     
  4. skeetB

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    No. Not really. Society as a whole is still terribly uptight. As you know people talk a good game sittin on their asses in front of a computer screen or even talkin on the phone, but when it comes right down to it, to the meetin or following through part...they freeze up.
    There is still a stigma of havin sex. And god forbid it be good sex. Doesn't matter the age or race. Sex is taboo. Something done in the dark and at night.
    There are people that aren't uptight...such as myself :) Just in my circle of friends...it's not talked about. I however make innuendos every chance I get and can make a man blush let alone females.
    People, most people, are not comfortable discussin sex.
     
  5. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Whom would you think are more uptight about discussing sex in your opinion: men or women? And whom do you think are more liable to pretend about it? To make like they're having some when really they're wanking off to Hustler magazine?
     
  6. skeetB

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    Women are more uptight I think. Again from my circle of friends I think there is 2 females that will talk about sex...but most of the guys will.
    Who pretends more...men. Men will pretend to be something they're not, be it black man, female, or hot stud. They talk more shit than an inmate.
     
  7. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You think they get jealous when they hear you talk about sex when with them?

    Ouch! I'm hurt.
     
  8. skeetB

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    No...I think they get embarrassed. Now the 2 that WILL talk about it get a little jealous. One said she has to live vicariously through me :)

    Why are you hurt?
     
  9. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Sounds like they often get ashamed to hear you talk cos they realise they aren't getting much back home. No 'Sex & the City' between you ladies.

    Wasn't hurt, don't mind me. Was kidding.
     
  10. skeetB

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    One of the friends has regularly had black, but from what I hear he wasn't workin with much, and the other has never been with a black man.

    I figured you was kiddin was it the men spew more shit comment?
     
  11. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    In your opinion, do women who haven't been with a black man before get jealous when you start such talk with them?
     
  12. skeetB

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    If they do, they hide it well. They seem to be more uncomfortable if anything. But, keep in mind I live in hickville USA.
     
  13. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Hickville, USA ... I ought to find that out in the map.
    But you do have a sense of point that a lot of women still pretend about it. Matter of fact, I think it's the society we live in. Why is it that women still have to pretend or hide their sexuality from the eyes of the world?
     
  14. skeetB

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    Good luck finding it on a map. May take ya awhile...like never. LOL

    Why do women have to hide their sexuality? Because of uptight men and snotty women.
    Sex is for procreating. Not for fun, in society's view.
    A hundred years ago sex was to be done under the cover of darkness and women only had one partner. That was the norm. Breaking away from "norms" is a hard thing to do.
    Things are changing but not at a rapid rate.
    The media and internet I think have seriously been advantageous to womens sexuality. Really not even just women. For the fetishes, men, homosexuality, the "taboo". The list is long, but people are more open they were in this day and age than they were many years ago.
    But I believe you can simply thank society and its...archaic way of thinkin that sex is to be enjoyed by men, women are just a tool.
     
  15. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    But where there's been some leeway... haven;t there as well been some missteps?

    You listened to that Republican radio ass Rush Limbaugh calling that Georgetown university lady a 'slut' on his radio program?
     
  16. skeetB

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    Anytime there's progress there will be missteps. Only way to learn.

    And no I didn't listen to it, but I did hear about it. And I saw the lady on the View and listened to her. Rush Limbaugh is an ass. Always says something stupid.
     
  17. Marshavon

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    When I grew up it was a "sin" to play cards much less have sex unmarried or even the thought of interacial sex. Once I was tricked into "puttin' out" it felt sooo good I was hooked for life!
     
  18. Dsoul

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    Him wanting the girl to put her sex tape online ... probably to jerk off to. Don't that sound like a guy who watches porn too much and ought to be cucked?
     
  19. Dsoul

    Dsoul Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    When you were growing up... did you ever over-hear some girls whisper about black men?
     
  20. skeetB

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    He wanted Georgetown lady to put her sex tape online? I don't know what all he said besides callin her a slut. I don't even know why he was shootin his mouth off.
    As for the cuckin....he is one person I think needs humiliation