How can I persuade my girlfriend to have sex with a black man?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by weaknfunny, May 29, 2012.

  1. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    Hello,
    I have a girlfriend who has blonde hair with blue eyes. Her blonde face looks really innocent and beautiful. Also she has a very nice body. She is 1.70 m and she has 57 kgs. She has average boobs and such curly bums (a round ass). But I think that I am not enough to qualify this beauty in the bed. I have a small-average penis and I can show a hardcore performance in the bed. With all that, the worst thing is that she looks like I am enough for her. She gets orgasm in 5 minutes and later she says that she is done. Also we do only missioner position or she rides me. Ok, we do sex often but for me it is just boring. Briefly I can not do what a black bull can do to her. But I can imagine what would happen to her, if a hunk black man has her! I can imagine, she would get melted in his big black hands or how the big black thick meat would get disappear roughly or slowly in pale peer shaped body! and how tremendous earthquakes could be occured in her body by his black MAN!... She would learn what a real sex is or what is being fucked in real meaning... Unfortunately she misses all these.......

    So I am wondering how I can make this perfect match come true. She should have sex with a black man! I don't know how to persuade her. She doesn't watch porn even! Please let me know!!!!!

    Additional knowledge:

    *When we first meet she told me in a conversation that she has never met a black man before. Later she admit that she dated with a black boy when she was studying but they only went out or watched movies. In the end she admitted that she kissed him but she still denies that they had sex! I don't know the reality but it comes to me true anyway.

    * I have an arab male friend who is very dark and muscular. She knew him only by pics and she told me that he looks like a party boy. Later I told about him something to her. It was that once he had sex with a woman and his condom got ripped off and he was worried of a possible pregnancy. After I told her she had started to ask many questions about him(but not about sex) and she compared me with him(which one is taller, he or me?). Those questions doubt me about her and I told it to her. And the last thing once she told me that she will give a name to my dick and she gave my same friend's name! I was really mad!. I asked her if she fantasies her but she denied again...
     
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  2. Blackmywife

    Blackmywife New Member

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    There are things in life that you can control, and things that you can't. I would love to see my wife with black men. What I can control is that I can be honest with her. What I can't control, though. is what she wants. If you love and respect your girlfriend, I don't believe that you should try to "persuade" her as much as to just tell her that you'd be excited to see it happen, and that you fully support her. Whether or not she goes through with it is in her hands.
     
  3. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    Of course she must want it too! I wouldn't try to persuade her if it's something she wouldn't like. It would be better If I say "I wonder how can I let her make her black man fantasies come true?" I just wish her to know what I wish and if she has the same opinions, she is free to do it!
     
  4. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    Of course she must want it too! I wouldn't try to persuade her if it's something she wouldn't like. It would be better If I say "I wonder how can I let her make her black man fantasies come true?" I just wish her to know what I wish and if she has the same opinions, she is free to do it!
     
  5. One Small Dick

    One Small Dick Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Just talk it over with her. Let her know that it's something that could be very exciting for both of you. Her excitement comes from receiving the best sex she ever had and yours comes from seeing her so sexually pleasured. Let her know quick though that you have no desire to be with anyone else at all. You just want her to experience this as a sexual boost for her...and you.
     
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  6. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    Thank you for your suggestions but I wish she were open minded as you thought. If I mention about it directly, she would think that I am a pervert or a weirdo. That's why I felt helpless and come here. She looks like a classic person or even a little bit conservative but I catch her kinky side in deeps. That's why I sense that she would have a perfect sex with a black lion and he would get her on the top. She has a potential but it is hard to reach. I accept my mission is really difficult to make it.
     
  7. J. Beachy

    J. Beachy New Member

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    It can't hurt to be honest about your feelings, if you never ask our at least mention your fantasy it will never happen. I would say if she is not open to the idea do not try to force it on her. Give her some time to process what you are asking and she how she feels about it later.
     
  8. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    What I am trying to do is Not talking about it directly but I make jokes about it. She also laughes and joins those jokes but I am not in the point to tell it directly now.
     
  9. J. Beachy

    J. Beachy New Member

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    I understand that, It took me awhile to come right out about it with my wife. I hope things work out for you either way,
     
  10. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    Thank you. So she has sex with black bulls now? How did it happen?
     
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  11. J. Beachy

    J. Beachy New Member

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    She did once but has not happened since
     
  12. Suggest it to her and take it from there
     
  13. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    she would kill me! somebody else should do it
     
  14. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    she didn't like it?
     
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  15. J. Beachy

    J. Beachy New Member

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    She says she didn't and if she didn't i have my theories as to why, but on the other hand most women are going to lie to their husbands if they get caught cheating, saying they didn't like it even if they loved it lol
     
  16. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Whatever you do DON'T EVER surprise her with a BBC. A lot of years ago I met this guy that assured me that his wife wanted to try IR sex. We set up a time, I arrived, his wife was not amused. She got thoroughly pissed and threatened to call police if I didn't leave. They ended up divorcing.

    However if she is really interested in BBC she is probably already getting it. And you likely wouldn't find out unless she wants you to.
     
  17. J. Beachy

    J. Beachy New Member

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    Well my wife will want to do it and when we start making plans she gets nerveous and backs out, or she starts feeling self conscience about her body saying she is fat and she does not want another guy seeing her naked until she has lost some weight. I showed her the charts at the gym based on her height and weight she is in the normal weight category, I've showed her the same thing at the doc's office but she is not convinced. I asked her if I invited someone over without her knowledge, he comes in starts messing with her would she sleep with him or would she get really pissed at me? She told me she would sleep with him. I told her I was rather surprised at her answer and she said well she wouldn't want me and him mad at her. Now whether that is how it would go down or not, I have no clue.
     
  18. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Maybe in your case a surprise might help. Sounds to me like she doesn't want to be responsible for the choice. If she is "forced" to submit then she isn't responsible. If she doesn't enjoy the experience it's your fault. If she enjoys the experience and most likely she will, and she gets hooked on BBC then that's your fault too because you "forced" her. You are on a slippery slope. She could very well rebel, throw you out on your ass, and you won't be getting any pussy at least not from her. She could very well love the experience and become hooked on BBC and you won't be getting any pussy from her. From what you are saying it sounds to me like she wants to lay the responsibility at your feet.

    One more word of advice. Don't ever try to understand the mind of a woman, we can't and you will just get a headache trying.
     
  19. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    No there will be no surprises. Actually I prefer everything to happen spontaneously. I mean not inviting a black man to our house but going to a club and provide a black man to dance and talk with her or being friends with some blacks or arabs and making a contact between them. It would be the best
     
  20. weaknfunny

    weaknfunny Well-Known Member

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    Women are complicated and confusing. Don't ever expect consistency from them. How is your sex life with your wife? Do you try different positions or only missioner? She has a fantasy world?