North Texas? very cool. But Mike, be careful about pushing her in this direction. There are some women who will do it just to please their husbands. And what fun is that, if they are not enjoying it? And there are some ladies who, because of religion or upbringing or whatever, will say they will go BBC and never will. I was married to a filipina for 16 years and am engaged to another one. No matter what your desires, it is not worth throwing your marriage away.