So, all fantasy stuff aside, I do have a legitimate issue. I'm seeing a girl right now whom I really have feelings for, but I just don't seem to be working downstairs at the moment. I don't know if it's all of this interracial porn I view daily or what, but it just doesn't stay active down there. Granted, all she's tried to do five times now is a handjob and it hasn't led to a finish yet. She's now getting concerned that we're not "physically compatible" as much as we have feelings for each other. I don't want her to think this way or it lead to further issues. We're not going any further until we can pass this particular hump. Any advice on an issue like this or what I can do to fix it?