Hi! Husband from California here, looking friends around SF

I would love to have a friend that get's hot with other's wives, and that my wife can find herself attracted to. She know about my fantasies and we tease each other, but having someone that she feels comfortable with would make it much easier and fun! Also, I love the idea of drinking beer with someone that is about to make her moan.
Oh... she knows. Also, by sharing some videos, she is gets much more aroused with black actors than whites... so I think that (not surprisingly) the fantasies are shared. The difference is probably how secure we feel about realizing them.