We are a late 30's couple in Richmond. The wife has never been very sexually promiscuous. I am trying to get her to have sex with other men with the ultimate goal of having her take BBC. she is somewhat why sexually (but not about her body being seen-odd) and sometimes gets frustrated, sometimes get turned on when I mention her being with other men. She has been easing into using a large white dildo and has agreed to start using a black dildo. In your experiences, what enabled your wives (or wives what made you) to finally agree to it?