I have played with a few wives with the husband knowing or there to watch. Said it was part of their marriage. I played with one guys wife for over 2 years, it was a weekly thing He used to send her to my place and on weekends he came to watch me do 3sums with his wife and another female sex friend. In his case, he couldn't get an erection but said she always have a black lover since they were in college before he have that problem. Said it made their marriage stronger and helped since she had a strong sex drive. sure i they were posting, this they would say the same..