You have a long road to travel. Whatever you do, do not ******* the issue and do not mention it every chance you get. Secondly, you need to know if she has any interest in an interracial relation or meeting, that is the most important piece of information you need. If she is not interested, it just may be a while. You may get some suggestions to introduce her to I porn, not always a good idea. Just talk to her and get her view on the situation before proceeding. Lastly, be careful of what you wish for.
I wish you all the best!