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hello everyone

my name is Tom, im 29 white male and ive been married for a little over 3 years. i married a virgin and a good girl so i was her first in everything as far as sexually. I am around 3 inches hard and quickly she realized that im below avg in size. i feel bad about it and want to make her happy so i started looking into cuckolding. I know i havent been able to please her yet and she has hinted at seeing other people and having an open type relationship. i saw her internet history on the computer the other day and saw where she was looking at cuckold porn and mostly looking up big dicks and big black dicks seem to be what she looked at the most. I know she has always had a thing for black men but i guess i never really knew the depth of it.

anyways here are the pix of what i have to work with ,

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id like to know anyones opinion on if id ever have a chance to please my wife with it, if there is any positions for people my size or if i should plain give up and find a role that will help please her the best. looking forward to chatting with everyone


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Of course you can please your wife, even if you will never be able to satisfy her needs with such a small penis, there are many other ways to make her happy.

If you have not done so as yet, you should be learning to give her as much pleasure as possible using all of the equipment you do have at your disposal: your mouth, hands and toys. While this may not be completely fulfilling for her, it will at least provide a solid sexual relationship for the two of you to expand upon as well as help cement your emotional connection. Make sure she knows you desire her satisfaction and are willing to do whatever it takes to please her.

After establishing this core, since you already know that she is interested in having sex with well endowed men, especially black men, if that is something that you truly feel you would be comfortable with her doing in order for her to experience the totally satisfying sort of sex that she desires and deserves, you should discuss how to make this work for both of you. You will need to determine whether seeing her with another man is something you could really handle or not.

If you can, then the two of you can determine what style of cuckolding would be the best fit.

Do you feel submissive at all toward her? If you do, then the two of you might wish to consider having a Female Led Relationship in which she becomes the dominant partner and you her support.

If not, you might consider a "Hot Wife" style where she gets to enjoy one or more lovers while you watch or even participate as a threesome.

Just because you are limited in one area that doesn't mean you can't add a extra hand or mouth to increase her pleasure while someone else is supplying the cock she yearns for.

If you don't think you would wish to be directly involved, you could simply give her your blessing to enjoy sexual partners outside your marriage and establish some sort of system whereby she can set up her "dates" in a way that doesn't interfere with your lives together, but still gives her ample opportunity to obtain the sexual fulfillment she needs which you cannot supply.

Whatever you decide, the most important thing is to maintain a loving relationship and do your best to give each other the support to grow and find fulfillment as individuals as well as a couple.

Best wishes.
I think 'willsrvu' has said it accurately and wisely. You can bring her pleasure but probably not sexual fulfillment. Much communication needs to be done to establish what you both want and are comfortable with. From your post it sounds as if you do want her needs and desires to be a priority. Determine in your own heart and mind what you are willing to do for her, then talk to her openly.

Be certain what you are willing and capable of doing yourself before you start down this road. Often there is no turning back.

Good luck.