there's so much wrong with the OP's question on every imaginable level lol smdh.... I'll just stick to THIS one point: there is a VAST difference between Love, Affection, and Fetish. This site, this Lifestyle (BBC lovers) is a FETISH.
The question of love and devotion, of marriage and commitment and relationships - Most of ya'll don't qualify to even broach the topic.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say a whopping 85% of the ladies here never been in an ACTUAL loving relationship with a Black Man so you really have no idea what you're talking about. You got fucked by a dick bigger than your S.O.'s... and somehow equate that to 'feelings'.
BRUH.... some of us have been in mixed-race marriages and have bi-racial ******* (the natural, nuclear family way, not the 'BBC breeding' way)
Then there's the other 15% of you who probably DID date a black man at some point in their life, and wear that as some sort of racial 'badge of honor' (no Hood Pass from me, but whatevs)
And then, there's the tiny fractional % of women here like Jace4BBC who ONLY EXCLUSIVELY dates/marries Black men.
It just kills me to sit and read White People discuss 'love' and relationships with Black Men - referring to us as 'BBC' (an object, mind you) and never been in anything remotely close to a working functioning stable relationship outside of your tiny world.
as for the OP - she claims that Black Men don't make good husbands. I'm not even going to justify that with a retort.
That ignorance stands alone.
-Magnanimous Mike