Guys, could you controlling your orgasm?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by susana2012, Nov 19, 2012.

  1. susana2012

    susana2012 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    It is known during sex, a lot of men try to wait for woman orgasm, to cum together or do it later. It means men have to get some control over their orgasmic response.
    Of course not all men will be able to wait for woman orgasm for ever.
    When I met my black boyfriend, he used the cum quickly at first, but he was learning to wait for me and finally he could let me cum first or cum together every time we had sex.
    But this is even more interesting:
    It was the second time my ex and me had sex in front of my husband, several years after our relationship over.
    My ex, my hubby and me had already fucked in missionary and we were resting for some minutes. After a short relaxation, I sat over my black friend to fuck in courtesan position.
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    During the fuck, my hubby helped me licking my breast until I cummed. My ex had not cummed yet, and maybe he felt my pussy soft due my orgasm. So I stayed sat over him with his hard cock inside my pussy, fucking like I wouldn't have cummed.
    We were fucking for several minutes more. I started to felt myself excited again and my pussy turned tense one more time.
    My ex black boyfriend said "I'll try to cum". I couldn't believe what I had heard from him...!
    If he was going to cum, I whised to do it with him.
    I called for my husband and begged him to lick my nipples again, while we kept fucking.
    Axel tensed all the muscles from his body. Even I could feel how he contracted his abdomen, legs and toes too. His face's expression showed us the immense effort he was doing.
    He held me by my hips and guided my movements over his cock. I could notice his pronounced abdominal muscles due to his tension, and it excited me even more.
    During a short moment, the tension was intense, but suddenly the relief appeared. My ex started to gasp even more loudly indicated us that his orgasm was close to appear. I felt my pussy contractions and a great heat raised my head. I held my hubby’s head against my tits while Axel cummed screaming of pleasure.
    In that moment, I cummed for second time.
    Axel was amazing. He could cum when he wished.
    What we did after that is not important for this topic.
    Now the question is: Guys, could you get your orgasm when you really wish to do it?
     
  2. charlytom

    charlytom Member

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    I never could do it.
     
  3. Alanm

    Alanm Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    No, me either. I could hold it off a little but not cum sooner.
     
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  4. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    No, I either need to cum very quickly or I can control it to not happen. Unfortunately (for me), I then either take forever to cum or I just don't. :):(:unsure:
     
  5. charlytom

    charlytom Member

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    Your ex boyfriend is amazing!!! "I'll try to cum"...it's wonderful!
     
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  6. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    Well, no doubt women would prefer most guys could last longer during intercourse than many do. And, the smaller a guy is, the more effort he usually needs to make in pleasing his woman, himself. I'd much rather allow another man have sex because I want him to, rather than because I need him to. Although women do usually get moist from the anticipation of having sex, usually they don't get moist enough to be extra "slippery when wet". It's up to us guys to get them to that stage before pounding our equipment in them for our own pleasures, otherwise, their pussies just jerk us off and we don't last very long. Lubrication ... that's an important key to increasing endurance. :frantic:
     
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  7. baisa3

    baisa3 Member

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    it's easy to control i have ever fuck with my wife 6 hours without stop. This is my wife who learned to fuck long time... i've tired many girls who thinks they where good bitches, unable to fuck more than one hour. This is true that my wife see "stars", after a time. The secret is to make sport... because you can control your breathe
     
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  8. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    I don't know about it being "easy to control".
    I know I can turn off the desire to orgasm and then fuck virtually for hours, but once I've turned off the desire to cum, I can't easily turn it back on and usually will stop when my Wife is satisfied and just go without having an orgasm of my own. :(

    I remember reading an interview that someone did with Ron Jeremy, the porn actor, who said that his real talent was being able to cum whenever the director wanted him to. When they were ready for the "money shot", they would cue him and BAM, he would cum. :hot:

    So if you know the secret to be able to do that, I'd love to hear it. :)
     
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  9. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    When I was younger I was pretty quick on the trigger but I often stayed hard. If I was with a new partner I could orgasm and keep on fucking. By the time I was in my 30's I could control myself fairly well if I was on top or going doggie. When I felt the orgasm start to build I would slow down or stop the stroking until the edge subsided. Now that I am in my 60's it takes longer to achieve an erection and it takes a long time to cum. Since I am still very active sexually my cock hasn't shrunk and I have always been apply endowed so most women are getting kind of sore by the time I cum. I really enjoy having two women together when I can. And they seem to enjoy too.

    If your problem is that your lover/husband/bull is too quick on the trigger then I would recommend finding a bull that is at least 45 or 50 years old. If he is in good shape physically you might be pleasantly surprised at what he can do for and to you. And speaking on a personal note, I am very appreciative to get my cock into a woman 35 or 40 years old.

    The age has another benefit, nobody thinks that really hot blond married to the investment banker is getting boned by the old black guy with the grey hair
     
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  10. susana2012

    susana2012 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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  11. True-Romance

    True-Romance Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    yeah, i learned to control the cum, but i could even keep my cock even after i cum, which is an amazing trick on its own.
     
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  12. True-Romance

    True-Romance Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    practice makes perfect.lol
     
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  13. susana2012

    susana2012 Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    My ex used his strength in that ocasion. It was amazing how he tensed all the muscles from his body.
     
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