Ground Rules for Cucks?

Cuckloversissy

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So my girl and I are looking to find someone to give her what she needs...my 4 inches won't cut it.

My question is to cucks, cuckoldresses, hotwives, wannabes, and most importantly, bulls.

When you enter into a relationship with a cuckold couple, what sort of ground rules do you lay out for the cuck?

I think it is important for both members of the cuck couple to follow the rules explicitly no matter what they are.

And this is my fiance, Rachel. Would you have any rules for her, either?
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So my girl and I are looking to find someone to give her what she needs...my 4 inches won't cut it.

My question is to cucks, cuckoldresses, hotwives, wannabes, and most importantly, bulls.

When you enter into a relationship with a cuckold couple, what sort of ground rules do you lay out for the cuck?

I think it is important for both members of the cuck couple to follow the rules explicitly no matter what they are.

And this is my fiance, Rachel. Would you have any rules for her, either?
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https://cuckoldfart.com/topic/262-cuckold-contract/

As a cuckold you certainly don't deserve anything as hot as your fiance.
 

1. Rights of the Cuckoldress
(1.1) The cuckoldress will have the right to have sexual relations with any she may choose to do so with.
(1.2) The number of men she has sexual relations with is the discression of the cuckoldress.
(1.3) The cuckoldress has the right to choose which men she will have sexual relations with.
(1.4) The period of the cuckoldress having sexual relations with other men is indefinite.
(1.5) The cuckoldress may have sexual relation with other men as much as she may choose.
(1.6) The cuckoldress may have sexual relations with other men where ever she may choose.
(1.7) The cuckoldress has the right to have sexual relations with more than one man at a time or multiple partners at a time.
(1.8) The cuckoldress has the right to become pregnant by her lover if she so chooses to do so.
(1.9) The cuckoldress has the right to give birth to any children conceived during her sexual relations with other men.
(1.10) The cuckoldress has the right to keep the cuckold in a chastity device as long as she may choose.
(1.11) The cuckoldress has the right to deny sex to the cuckold if she chooses to do so.
(1.12) The cuckoldress has the right to allow other men to ejaculate inside her vagina and mouth.
(1.13) The cuckoldress has the right to use or not to use birth control.

2. Duties of the Cuckold
(2.1) The cuckold will prepare all items for the cuckoldress and her bull before their meeting.
(2.2) The cuckold will follow any and all instruction given by the cuckoldress and her bull during their meeting.
(2.3) The cuckold will help the cuckoldress’s bull achieve erection (orally), if instructed to do so.
(2.4) The cuckold will orally clean the cuckoldress’s vagina after her bull has finished ejaculating inside her vagina, if instructed to do so.
(2.5) The cuckold will orally clean the cuckoldress’s juices off the bull’s penis after the bull has finished intercourse with the cuckoldress, if instructed to do so.
(2.6) The cuckold will clean up after the cuckoldress and her bull meeting.

3. Rights of the Black or White Bull
(3.1) The bull has the right to the cuckoldress’s vagina.
(3.2) The bull has the right to deny the cuckold any intercourse with the cuckoldress.
(3.3) The bull has the right to hold the key to the cuckold’s chastity device if he so wishes.
(3.4) The bull has the right to impregnate the cuckoldress, if the cuckoldress allows it to happen.
(3.5) The bull has the right to hhhhhhhhh the cuckold any time he wants.
(3.6) The bull has the right to give instruction to the cuckold.
(3.7) The bull has the right to ejaculate inside the cuckoldress’s vagina.
(3.8) The bull has the right to ejaculate inside the cuckoldress’s mouth.

4. Intercourse
(4.1) The cuckoldress will decide if there is any sexual relations between her and the cuckold.
(4.2) The cuckold must obey any sexual request made by the cuckoldress.
(4.3) The cuckold is responsible for all cleaning of any and all sex toys.
(4.4) The cuckold may not ask for sexual relations from the cuckoldress, the cuckoldress will determine when sexual relations will be given to the cuckold.
(4.5) The cuckoldress will determine when the cuckold will be allowed to ejaculate.
(4.6) Te cuckold will not be allowed to have sexual intercourse more than twice a month with the cuckoldress (for the cuckold’s health reasons).
(4.7) The cuckold must wear a condom and never ejaculate inside the cuckoldress’s vagina whenever he does have intercourse with the cuckoldress.
(4.8) The cuckold must dispose of at all times any of his ejaculate by flushing it down the toilet.

5. Chastity Enforcement
(5.1) The cuckold must wear his chastity device at all times unless approved by the cuckoldress.
(5.2) The cuckoldress will hold the key to the chastity device unless permission is given to the bull by the cuckoldress to hold the key.
(5.3) The emergency back up keys for the chastity device will be locked in a safe box and the cuckoldress will hold the key to the safe box also.
(5.4) The cuckoldress will unlock the chastity device only when it is time for the two sexual intercourse times and or the other ejaculation times.
(5.5) Punishment for not wearing the chastity device will be no sexual intercourse or any ejaculation for one month.

6. Ownership Rights
(6.1) The cuckold is property of the cuckoldress.
(6.2) The cuckold will wear his slave bar coded tags at all times.
(6.3) The cuckold will wear his cuckold T-shirt whenever instructed to do so by the cuckoldress.
(6.4) The cuckold will wear women’s panties at all times whenever he is not at work.
(6.5) The cuckold will not argue with the cuckoldress
(6.6) The cuckold will not raise his voice to the cuckoldress.
(6.7) The cuckold will not criticize the cuckoldress.
(6.8) The cuckold will not break any promise to the cuckoldress.
(6.9) The cuckold must always submit to the cuckoldress.
(6.9a) The cuckold will not hide anything from the cuckoldress.
(6.9b) The cuckold will not tell any friend or family member of the cuckoldress about her sexual relations with other men.
(6.9c) The cuckold must report to the cuckoldress everyday for her inspection checklist of chastity enforcement, slave tag wearing, cuckold t-shirt wearing, and women’s panty wearing

7. Punishments
(7.1) All punishments will be the right of the cuckoldress.
(7.2) All punishments will be determined by the cuckoldress.
(7.3) Punishments can be any or all of the following:
(7.3a) Extra household duties.
(7.3b) Longer times of wearing chastity device without sexual
Intercourse or ejaculation.
(7.3c) The cuckoldress cheating on the cuckold with black or white men.
(7.4d) The cuckoldress showing pictures or telling cuckold’s friends or co-workers about his chastity device or about their cuckold marriage and cuckoldress’s sexual relations with other men.
(7.5e) The cuckoldress telling the cuckold’s family and friends and co-workers about not being able to keep his penis hard and having to take Viagra to keep it hard.

8. Humiliation
(8.1) The cuckoldress telling cuckold in front of the bull how small cuckold penis is.
(8.2) The cuckoldress telling the cuckold what a lousy lover he is and how wonderful her bull is.
(8.3) The cuckoldress always comparing the size of black or white men’s penis to cuckold’s penis.
(8.4) The cuckoldress laughing at the size of the cuckold’s penis.
(8.5) The cuckoldress reminding the cuckold of how less of a man he is for having a small penis and not having enough seed to impregnate her.
(8.6) The cuckold must accept all humiliation without getting angry or disappointed.
(8.7) The cuckold will get a vasectomy if instructed to do so by the cuckoldress or the bull.
(8.8) The cuckold will wear women’s panties whenever instructed to do so by the cuckoldress.

9. Rights of the Cuckold
(9.1) The cuckold cannot back out of this agreement and cannot change his mind about the cuckoldress having sexual relations with black or white men once this contract is signed.
(9.2) The cuckold has the right to be told of any and all sexual relations with black or white men

The aforementioned agreements will take effect from the date of the Cuckold Contract signing. All agreements are to start on this day. This contract is legal furthermore the cuckold cannot take any legal action in a court of law against the cuckoldress for any of these agreements including having sexual relations with other men outside of this marriage. If cuckold breaks this agreement and does not allow the cuckoldress to do all of the things that are listed in this agreement. He will pay the cuckoldress $500,000 in cash and the cuckoldress keeps the house. This Cuckold Contract is agreed upon by both parties because of the inability of the cuckold to satisfy the cuckoldress sexually.


Cuckoldress _______________Date _______


Cuckold __________________ Date_______
 
1. Rights of the Cuckoldress
(1.1) The cuckoldress will have the right to have sexual relations with any she may choose to do so with.
(1.2) The number of men she has sexual relations with is the discression of the cuckoldress.
(1.3) The cuckoldress has the right to choose which men she will have sexual relations with.
(1.4) The period of the cuckoldress having sexual relations with other men is indefinite.
(1.5) The cuckoldress may have sexual relation with other men as much as she may choose.
(1.6) The cuckoldress may have sexual relations with other men where ever she may choose.
(1.7) The cuckoldress has the right to have sexual relations with more than one man at a time or multiple partners at a time.
(1.8) The cuckoldress has the right to become pregnant by her lover if she so chooses to do so.
(1.9) The cuckoldress has the right to give birth to any children conceived during her sexual relations with other men.
(1.10) The cuckoldress has the right to keep the cuckold in a chastity device as long as she may choose.
(1.11) The cuckoldress has the right to deny sex to the cuckold if she chooses to do so.
(1.12) The cuckoldress has the right to allow other men to ejaculate inside her vagina and mouth.
(1.13) The cuckoldress has the right to use or not to use birth control.

2. Duties of the Cuckold
(2.1) The cuckold will prepare all items for the cuckoldress and her bull before their meeting.
(2.2) The cuckold will follow any and all instruction given by the cuckoldress and her bull during their meeting.
(2.3) The cuckold will help the cuckoldress’s bull achieve erection (orally), if instructed to do so.
(2.4) The cuckold will orally clean the cuckoldress’s vagina after her bull has finished ejaculating inside her vagina, if instructed to do so.
(2.5) The cuckold will orally clean the cuckoldress’s juices off the bull’s penis after the bull has finished intercourse with the cuckoldress, if instructed to do so.
(2.6) The cuckold will clean up after the cuckoldress and her bull meeting.

3. Rights of the Black or White Bull
(3.1) The bull has the right to the cuckoldress’s vagina.
(3.2) The bull has the right to deny the cuckold any intercourse with the cuckoldress.
(3.3) The bull has the right to hold the key to the cuckold’s chastity device if he so wishes.
(3.4) The bull has the right to impregnate the cuckoldress, if the cuckoldress allows it to happen.
(3.5) The bull has the right to hhhhhhhhh the cuckold any time he wants.
(3.6) The bull has the right to give instruction to the cuckold.
(3.7) The bull has the right to ejaculate inside the cuckoldress’s vagina.
(3.8) The bull has the right to ejaculate inside the cuckoldress’s mouth.

4. Intercourse
(4.1) The cuckoldress will decide if there is any sexual relations between her and the cuckold.
(4.2) The cuckold must obey any sexual request made by the cuckoldress.
(4.3) The cuckold is responsible for all cleaning of any and all sex toys.
(4.4) The cuckold may not ask for sexual relations from the cuckoldress, the cuckoldress will determine when sexual relations will be given to the cuckold.
(4.5) The cuckoldress will determine when the cuckold will be allowed to ejaculate.
(4.6) Te cuckold will not be allowed to have sexual intercourse more than twice a month with the cuckoldress (for the cuckold’s health reasons).
(4.7) The cuckold must wear a condom and never ejaculate inside the cuckoldress’s vagina whenever he does have intercourse with the cuckoldress.
(4.8) The cuckold must dispose of at all times any of his ejaculate by flushing it down the toilet.

5. Chastity Enforcement
(5.1) The cuckold must wear his chastity device at all times unless approved by the cuckoldress.
(5.2) The cuckoldress will hold the key to the chastity device unless permission is given to the bull by the cuckoldress to hold the key.
(5.3) The emergency back up keys for the chastity device will be locked in a safe box and the cuckoldress will hold the key to the safe box also.
(5.4) The cuckoldress will unlock the chastity device only when it is time for the two sexual intercourse times and or the other ejaculation times.
(5.5) Punishment for not wearing the chastity device will be no sexual intercourse or any ejaculation for one month.

6. Ownership Rights
(6.1) The cuckold is property of the cuckoldress.
(6.2) The cuckold will wear his slave bar coded tags at all times.
(6.3) The cuckold will wear his cuckold T-shirt whenever instructed to do so by the cuckoldress.
(6.4) The cuckold will wear women’s panties at all times whenever he is not at work.
(6.5) The cuckold will not argue with the cuckoldress
(6.6) The cuckold will not raise his voice to the cuckoldress.
(6.7) The cuckold will not criticize the cuckoldress.
(6.8) The cuckold will not break any promise to the cuckoldress.
(6.9) The cuckold must always submit to the cuckoldress.
(6.9a) The cuckold will not hide anything from the cuckoldress.
(6.9b) The cuckold will not tell any friend or family member of the cuckoldress about her sexual relations with other men.
(6.9c) The cuckold must report to the cuckoldress everyday for her inspection checklist of chastity enforcement, slave tag wearing, cuckold t-shirt wearing, and women’s panty wearing

7. Punishments
(7.1) All punishments will be the right of the cuckoldress.
(7.2) All punishments will be determined by the cuckoldress.
(7.3) Punishments can be any or all of the following:
(7.3a) Extra household duties.
(7.3b) Longer times of wearing chastity device without sexual
Intercourse or ejaculation.
(7.3c) The cuckoldress cheating on the cuckold with black or white men.
(7.4d) The cuckoldress showing pictures or telling cuckold’s friends or co-workers about his chastity device or about their cuckold marriage and cuckoldress’s sexual relations with other men.
(7.5e) The cuckoldress telling the cuckold’s family and friends and co-workers about not being able to keep his penis hard and having to take Viagra to keep it hard.

8. Humiliation
(8.1) The cuckoldress telling cuckold in front of the bull how small cuckold penis is.
(8.2) The cuckoldress telling the cuckold what a lousy lover he is and how wonderful her bull is.
(8.3) The cuckoldress always comparing the size of black or white men’s penis to cuckold’s penis.
(8.4) The cuckoldress laughing at the size of the cuckold’s penis.
(8.5) The cuckoldress reminding the cuckold of how less of a man he is for having a small penis and not having enough seed to impregnate her.
(8.6) The cuckold must accept all humiliation without getting angry or disappointed.
(8.7) The cuckold will get a vasectomy if instructed to do so by the cuckoldress or the bull.
(8.8) The cuckold will wear women’s panties whenever instructed to do so by the cuckoldress.

9. Rights of the Cuckold
(9.1) The cuckold cannot back out of this agreement and cannot change his mind about the cuckoldress having sexual relations with black or white men once this contract is signed.
(9.2) The cuckold has the right to be told of any and all sexual relations with black or white men

The aforementioned agreements will take effect from the date of the Cuckold Contract signing. All agreements are to start on this day. This contract is legal furthermore the cuckold cannot take any legal action in a court of law against the cuckoldress for any of these agreements including having sexual relations with other men outside of this marriage. If cuckold breaks this agreement and does not allow the cuckoldress to do all of the things that are listed in this agreement. He will pay the cuckoldress $500,000 in cash and the cuckoldress keeps the house. This Cuckold Contract is agreed upon by both parties because of the inability of the cuckold to satisfy the cuckoldress sexually.


Cuckoldress _______________Date _______


Cuckold __________________ Date_______
So where are your signatures? *lol*
 
I'd have no problem signing it right now in front of a lawyer:) but she thinks it a bit extreme. Maybe after a couple drinks she will change her mind.
For best experiences i`d recommend to adopt it to both of your demands/interests.

A rule of thumb has been provided by the more experienced swinger`s community and best described with a picture...
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Good luck!
 
For best experiences i`d recommend to adopt it to both of your demands/interests.

A rule of thumb has been provided by the more experienced swinger`s community and best described with a picture...
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Good luck!
That's an interesting diagram and certainly is relevant to our situation. My "don'ts" list is quite short and I am open to essentially anything. Her "don'ts" list is much more extensive and suprisingly specific to certain situations.
 
That's an interesting diagram and certainly is relevant to our situation. My "don'ts" list is quite short and I am open to essentially anything. Her "don'ts" list is much more extensive and suprisingly specific to certain situations.
That`s a good starting point, first to talk openly about it at all - the most important initial step. :)

As for the Dos and Donts, the Donts are the more important part. You will for sure fuck it up, if you`re crossing a line there. Make sure you respect each other`s limits. Additionally, agree upon a "secret" safeword you can use when things are getting uncomfortable or out of hand. This can be important in cases you encounter a situation that you thought was acceptable "in theory", but find out in reality it is not so.

Also, i advise to start as a couple (with both of you present) and discuss the experience after each event. If everything goes fine, you can change this later on to "let her" play on her own, if both of you are into that.
And play it safe, life is precious. ;)
 
I'd have no problem signing it right now in front of a lawyer:) but she thinks it a bit extreme. Maybe after a couple drinks she will change her mind.
Given you guys haven't even done this once, it sure feels like a big jump to me. watch her fucking and coming on another more virile, powerful man. Experience that first before any Contracting.

We feel strongly that in any sexual arrangement, there is always an opt-out option for any member because the submissive aspects of cuckolding is a willing power transfer to the dominant, and really only works if parties have option to opt out should their comfort level change. Safe words being key for any sub/dom relationship.

The contract stuff is a bit more advanced from where you guys are at, in my opinion. Try it. Live it. Try out rules that work for you as a couple. She should go date men and see how she likes it, but communicate a lot.

Most important thing in any alternative lifestyle is communication and honesty. We believe strongly in that.

Our $0.02.... But start flexible, align on structure once you know what your relationship can sustain. If you are going to be married, you want the agreement you both come to needs to be lifetime sustainable.
 
Its other way round...the rules are meant for bulls and not for cuckold husband or i would say mutually agreed rules for bull and cuckold both..it is cuckold husband who is swimming against the society norms and making lot of sacrifices
 
Why do some husbands become so excited by the reality of another man having equal or greater sexual privileges with his wife? It all comes down to our biology.
It’s In The Genes
Humans were never designed/intended to be monogamous beings. Marriage is an institution thrust upon us by religion to help create order and law in a time when we sorely needed it as a species.

The development of genetics as a tool of research has also shown that most if not all of the species of mammals who were thought to pair (and by assumption) mate for life, in fact only pair for life. Our social structure was originally based on small groups or communities where social ranking was established through ritual, combat and instinctive traits.

Much like the social organization of wolves, our ancestors had a rigid behavioral system tied to the individual’s social rank and the perceived social rank of those within their immediate group. The male who becomes recognized by his group as their leader, becomes the alpha male and in these social organizations, it is then his role to protect the ‘family’ and have first right or even singular right of procreation with the females.

The remaining males instinctively support that right. The other males, the betas, have to compete with him for opportunities to have one of the females or try to catch a female when the alpha isn’t around to interfere.

Wives, when first approached about the idea of being enjoyed by someone else, often first assume that the husband has lost interest in her for this to interest him. This is quite untrue and quite opposite of the truth. In fact, it is the wife’s appeal to him and others that fuels the erotic appeal of sharing her.

Often starting with encouragement to dress sexier, the cuckold-to-be isn’t just wanting to enjoy her sexier look for himself, but instead, expressing his desire to experience the beta role by encouraging his wife to choose an alpha male for herself…and for their marriage.

Alpha, Beta and the Gammas Who Love Them
Males, be they human or otherwise, aren’t born as ‘alphas’. An alpha becomes such by being recognized as such by his social group. When a wife chooses another male for his sexual prowess or assertive attitude, he is ‘promoted’ to being an alpha male within that social group (marriage). On an instinctive level, the husband accepts his role supporting the coupling of his wife and her alpha male. That’s not to say there isn’t still jealousy and conflict over the situation, but all the cuckolds I’ve known have felt this arrangement felt ‘strangely natural’ once they became comfortable that the marriage is solid and rather than being replaced, he is simply part of an expanding ‘family’.

Marriages experiencing this shift in roles and the ability to express themselves sexually in a more natural manner find much more to share in and intimacy will actually increase between cuckold and wife even as intimacy increases between the wife and her lover.

Partner Options Bring Role Options
Many of the qualities that make an alpha male appealing to women also make them less suitable as a marital partner, which leads back to why young women tend to date males doomed to disappoint them from a relationship standpoint – their role isn’t one of having a relationship – it’s a mating one.

In time, most women will mature and beging to appreciate the men who are still attractive to them, but perhaps not as attractive as the males they dated when younger. These males are those who have a higher chance of being a good partner and ******* to potential children. Women accept the compromise of a good husband and less than ideal lover because it’s what we are told to accept in terms of a wife/husband marriage.

In a cuckold marriage, the need for compromise doesn’t exist. A wife can enjoy the benefits, intimacy and support of a loving, supportive husband while inviting a lover into the marriage who matches her sexual needs much better. In this way, the couple becomes complete by more matching the biology that still runs our bodies despite what we’re taught to accept as our reality.

A hotwife marries for love and companionship and cuckolds for pleasure!

Physical Endowment Matters
The size, shape and thickness of the male organ is a visual and physical turn-on for women because the characteristics of a cock play an important role in a male’s mating

effectiveness.
First, we’ll talk about the glans – the head of the cock. The more pronounced the head is as compared to the shaft, the more effective the corona, the ridge around the rim of the cock head, will be in removing any competitor’s semen inside the female he’s mating with.

Second, I’ll mention how length matters: if I plant my seed deeper than a competitor can reach, then my odds of successfully mating are much higher.

Third, thickness: studies have long tried to establish the purpose of female orgasm. Some theorize it aids in semen retention. Recently I read a study that suggested that female orgasm helps change the chemistry inside her, leaving it more accepting of that partner’s sperm, thereby helping the woman choose who her actual mate will be by who makes her orgasm.

I’m not saying that hotwives think consciously in this manner – quite the opposite – just as the desire to play a natural, beta role is often subconscious in a husband, the rules of attraction to certain males as a hotwife are also subconscious and based on our procreative instincts.
 
It’s a Win-Win situation.
Most of the couples I’ve been involved with or coached loved each other and were very happy in their relationship, but were missing something. In most cases that was simple sexual fulfillment. It could be the husband has a small penis, lacks stamina or is simply not the assertive personality their wife fantasizes about giving herself to. Cuckolding allows this couple to experience greater sexual satisfaction while still enjoying the other aspects of their relationship. If you think about it, it’s much easier to find someone sexually compatible than someone compatible to share your life with, making this dynamic a natural fit for many couples who want their love and their sex to be fulfilling.
 
Given you guys haven't even done this once, it sure feels like a big jump to me. watch her fucking and coming on another more virile, powerful man. Experience that first before any Contracting.

We feel strongly that in any sexual arrangement, there is always an opt-out option for any member because the submissive aspects of cuckolding is a willing power transfer to the dominant, and really only works if parties have option to opt out should their comfort level change. Safe words being key for any sub/dom relationship.

The contract stuff is a bit more advanced from where you guys are at, in my opinion. Try it. Live it. Try out rules that work for you as a couple. She should go date men and see how she likes it, but communicate a lot.

Most important thing in any alternative lifestyle is communication and honesty. We believe strongly in that.

Our $0.02.... But start flexible, align on structure once you know what your relationship can sustain. If you are going to be married, you want the agreement you both come to needs to be lifetime sustainable.
100% agree with this post. Michael hadnt thought through a lot of the points in that contract (not that we have signed one). But his reaction initially to chastity, his denial & my sexual freedom regardless shocked him. He hadn't expected the speed of evolution once it started, the long term nature of his denial & how quickly I was able to find guys to play with me. It took many Frank discussions & help from a wonderful couple on this site to get him to adjust. All I'm saying for would be cuckolds, you're opening the door for your wife to sexual freedom. She will choose a superior lover. She will choose a guy(s) that will be more well endowed. You can't undo this when it starts & she may not want to stop if you ask her. Jxoxo
 
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